Am a 25 years old career man. my parents are talking of disowning me because i have decided to move out

[Sooriyocano]

The whole thing is ridiculous. Am very responsible and just want more privacy and responsibility in my life. My Hooyo is saying Habar iyo duco mid dorro. How did your parents react when you moved out?

 

[MuslimManMe]

If you're not married, its not worth it.
Your parents curse is not worth it

 

[BetterDaysAhead]

moving out and having your own place to stay will help strengthen your independency, if you have income and can provide for yourself then i don't see the issue, try telling them how this will help you out if you decide to get married and have kids

 

[486th President]

Your 25 it’s up to you innit they can’t make your choice on being independent but you need to talk to them in a nice way and soften there tone and comfort them... just talk to your parents

 

[Material]

They cant make you stay what are they doing to justify it anyways lol

 

[Bariire]

The whole thing is ridiculous. Am very responsible and just want more privacy and responsibility in my life. My Hooyo is saying Habar iyo duco mid dorro. How did your parents react when you moved out?

Trust us bro stay with your family until you've saved enough and also about to marry.

The success in life is in one's closeness with his mother and family in whole, so all in all good luck to you bro.

 

[scarecrow]

The whole thing is ridiculous. Am very responsible and just want more privacy and responsibility in my life. My Hooyo is saying Habar iyo duco mid dorro. How did your parents react when you moved out?

Stay with your parents get their blessing, meanwhile save up for your first property.
Why pay rent when you can live rent free. Independence is overrated. It's actually boring and depressing to be alone when your used to having people around.

 

[freeupgang]

u dont know how lucky you are bruh just chill with your parents and use your money to invest it into something that'll make you passive income

 

[Hassan2000]

You are blessed to have parents who love you and want you

 

[QueenofKings]

Your parents might have legit reasons to think you’re not ready to be left on your own. We don’t know your background, so if that’s the case listen to them. They know better, and if you’ve changed, stay a while to show them you’ve matured.

If you’re a responsible person and your parents are over reacting. Give them a bit of time. Maybe stay for now, save some money and in your next job apply for a place that’s further away. Surely they won’t try to stop your career progression.

It’s perfectly normal to be curious about living on your own. It’s not ceeb and it doesn’t make you caasi. You just need to find a way to help your parents manage their emotions.

 

[Jungle]

I just cant see how certain man are happy to go directly from the family house into a home with their wife. You've not lived. I seen where the wifey just takes over from hooyo giving man orders

 

[Juliet]

I plan to move out soon. Luckily my parents are cool with that because i want more opportunities. Try convincing them it will make you successful and independent so you can make them proud.

 

[Giftxo]

Just move out because that’s incredibly dumb and idiotic of them to do. You’re 25 already, do they want you locked up in your house by 40?

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Make your choice. Then stick to it.
If you leave then don't plan on coming back - if you want to take the island burn the boats no safety net
This habar/duco nonsense you need to tell your parents to step aside and be assertive otherwise theyll forever be coming up with nonsense.
It's time you became a man - choices have consequences.

 

[Jiron]

Brother remember that the grass is always green on the other side. I understand ur frustration but u have parents that care so much about u and want the best for u. If you are 100% set on moving out and establishing ur independence, prove to them that you are still a responsible young man by always listening to their lessons and being there for them.

 

[Sol]

Could always use the excuse that you've been relocated to a different office for work

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Lol i bet they left home young themselves

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Make your choice. Then stick to it.
If you leave then don't plan on coming back - if you want to take the island burn the boats no safety net
This habar/duco nonsense you need to tell your parents to step aside and be assertive otherwise theyll forever be coming up with nonsense.
It's time you became a man - choices have consequences.

That's terrible advise as his parents threatened to disown him. It's important for muslims to listen to their parents and get duuco for them ? Are you not muslim?

 

[Basra]

The whole thing is ridiculous. Am very responsible and just want more privacy and responsibility in my life. My Hooyo is saying Habar iyo duco mid dorro. How did your parents react when you moved out?

Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrllllll.........come closer



Who YOU lie-ing to??




huh?

We know u iz NOT a 'man" you is a CAPITAL Xaliimo!!!




Period!



If my 18 year son decides to move out i will be happy and ecstatic. He is being a man! !!!!




If my 18 year old or 25 year old daughter decided to move out before marriage?

I'm Habarringg cause she trying to be a Woman. and thats not the same thing, if you know what the bedroom i mean!

 

[Calaf]

If you don't have anything to hide, and don't engage in degeneracy and something to hide from your family, then no reason to leave, save that rent money and secure your life. Once you get married, then move out, and start your family.