So true. Reminds me of that xaasid married xalimo that has a good life, but advised young females to waste their lives doing stupid shit.Speaking specifically about relatives, I would say yes, women are more xassid. A lot of them are insecure and unfulfilled with their own lives, and hate to see young women thriving and doing their own thing (school, work, travel). It’s sad that older women would rather be petty and hateful towards younger women, when they can be a source of wisdom and experience. But then again, how can you expect all that from women who have lived lives that were filled with misery and disappointment? Key point is to stay away from them and surround yourself with healthy, positive people.