Be more clear basra, what other stuff can we do to be toxic?Not being submissive is a toxic woman
Instead of aspiring to toxicity, I think the healthier option that will prove more sustainable in the long term is to get good at setting firm boundaries and sticking to them no matter what how much people who want to take advantage of you complain.
Becoming a 'mean girl' is a juvenile form of building mental strength for young women that might be fun at first but it won't last.