I've expressed my opinion about it privately to you not long ago..I wish any marrying person can heed my warning ...I've had couple of them but my arms were twisted. The first wedding it was mutual bc I was also into it. We had 400 guests, one of the biggest to have ever taking place in this town. It was turn into a massive wedding bc of her mother.
Second time around I knew what I wanted but I was called " he is a cheap stake, trying to have our daughter next to nothing ". Once again it was the mother who demanded it.
Reason I tell you not to have a wedding ceremony are the following.
You'll waste $12k in one night
Majority of the people that show up will cut you into pieces the min your marriege ends in a divorce.
You'll receive great amount of dambi from islaaamos sitting in front row gossiping about you, you husband ( naa ninku ilka dhaadheeraa ma waraabuu cunijiray) and other guests ( naa eeg tii odeygeedii ka tagay, waxuuna uga tagay nadaafad dari)
Most likely you guys will accumulate deen and will divorce over it.
That night y'all won't even make love bc y'all too exhausted from getting pulled around to be danced with
80% of the food is wasted
So many young folks will hook up and eventually f*ck and you will be an accomplice to this dambi bc maybe, as is the case, the girl travelled from another state for the sole purpose of being at your wedding and ends up meeting the Menace, a known ku aase but you brought them together.
Lastly, you had a big wedding but that wedding wasnt for your sole happines bc you've done to brag and show off. That brings a pressure to pull this wedding flawless but which leaves you with headache at the end.