This is a scenario, imagine you get married you think the guy is a calm practising brother but after being married a while he says he wants you to cover up completely (niqab). You already observe good hijab and wear long skirts. You are not at this level of imaan yet, what would you do? & why do some ppl do this where they try to change someone AFTER marriage when they know who they married, why not marry a niqabi if you wanted one. It’s very odd weird behaviour. This I would understand in Saudi & the person is salami extreme
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- Thread starter Amal Hassan
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Break the contract aka the marriage
Recon Expert
cranking 90s 🥶
This is something important to discuss cuz you don't want to end up marrying a fundamentalist, they're morons with little to no independent thinking.
These type of things need to be discussed and agreed upon before a couple get married. Face covering is not mandatory if a women wears a hijab and observes modesty then that is all that is needed.
Cmon now he’s gone to your parents, paid little mahr. You obviously want to make it work but what else is there too? I think Somalis never speak about these type of men in our communities they want to have power and not be a partner
Hassan mahat
I karbash wahabist salafis daily.
I would terminate the marriage if I was the woman. Things like these should be extensively discussed before marriage.
You married them now what can you do. Salafis are on the extreme end but some Somali men do behave like this
He’s behaved like this after marriage and you love him. You wear a hijab this was a non factor for you as you are young and look modest. Big red flag huh
He tells you Jilbab is mandatory & at this point you are in love with him
Hassan mahat
I karbash wahabist salafis daily.
I mean, if you are wearing a hijab already, what is the use of niqab. It is just redundant since you are already a modest Muslim.
An advice: stay away from controlling men especially salafis.
An advice: stay away from controlling men especially salafis.
Recon Expert
cranking 90s 🥶
Maybe try to reason with him and if his little brain is not being rational then go against him and don't wear the Niqab.
If he gets physical then u should think about divorcing him
I think niqab is not islamic and it is not in the quran I think Allah revealed in the quran woman should only dress modest and cover up hair not face or hands
Idk where niqab come from I heard from YouTube video it came from non muslim ppl and muslims adopt it
So no one shouldn't force woman to cover face up cuz it is not obligated I think and face is identity
Like example if woman tht cover up face steal some thing or do something bad and no one don't know what the woman look like and doesn't get got
Idk where niqab come from I heard from YouTube video it came from non muslim ppl and muslims adopt it
So no one shouldn't force woman to cover face up cuz it is not obligated I think and face is identity
Like example if woman tht cover up face steal some thing or do something bad and no one don't know what the woman look like and doesn't get got
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I think jilbab isnt mandatory cuz if woman dress modest and cover hair doesn't need to wear jilbab
Joliemademoiselle
A pious muslima.
this happens when you marry because of your desire not for Allah....
life is not for your pleasure but a test.
life is not for your pleasure but a test.
Tell him, he either go by the contract or that's it.
So you going to be fake and wear it? Pleasing your husband when you don’t have the intention of pleasing Allah
Not really cause you get the good deed either way. Your intention may not be correct tho
