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Aseer

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They're mostly a good bunch.

A couple of heavyweight drinkers and retarded ciyaalsuuq who get involved in gangs here and there, but for the most part, they excel academically and/or really get involved with the community with volunteering + social work.

Here's a shining example from the end of last year, the boy's close to your age.
Thankyou for promoting us we need all the somalis around the world to come down under :rejoice: (WOMEN only the somali men in the other countries stay where you are)
They're the best out of all diaspora

ZERO heavyweight drinkers or retarded ciyaalsuuq and dont get involved in gangs here and there, and they always excel academically and are always involved with the community with volunteering + social work.
Let me correct that for you. :trumpsmirk:
 
Thankyou for promoting us we need all the somalis around the world to come down under :rejoice: (WOMEN only the somali men in the other countries stay where you are)

Let me correct that for you. :trumpsmirk:
Now, now...let's not get ahead of ourselves, mate.

While there are several well-established Faaraxs here, some of whom I'm grateful to have as colleagues, I still know more junkie Somali boys who disgrace their parents by engaging in hoodratnimo when there's no need with CentreLink around.
 

Aseer

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Now, now...let's not get ahead of ourselves, mate.

While there are several well-established Faaraxs here, some of whom I'm grateful to have as colleagues, I still know more junkie Somali boys who disgrace their parents by engaging in hoodratnimo when there's no need with CentreLink around.
They are the minority and besides most of them later on straighten up after their wannabe gangster phase and get into trades or uni and settle down. Its a even smaller percentage of those that cant even do that and become full blown qasaaros and they arent noticeable so it doesnt even damage our PR 😂
 
They are the minority and besides most of them later on straighten up after their wannabe gangster phase and get into trades or uni and settle down. Its a even smaller percentage of those that cant even do that and become full blown qasaaros and they arent noticeable so it doesnt even damage our PR 😂
Most of what you've written here in response is just wishful thinking.

Particularly the bits I've put in bold, we can't really quantify how widespread the issue is and by how much it's grown/reduced over the years without actual statistics of Somali-Australian male youth.

Even looking up how many Somalis are in Australia is a pain in the ass, because IIRC the Bureau counts people 'born in Somalia' not all of us of Somali origin so I don't think it's right for you to write it off as a very small minority. That's probably your bias as a Perth boy where the community is smaller than Sydney/Melbourne so the pool of saqajaan Aussie Abdis around you is minuscule.
 

Aseer

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Most of what you've written here in response is just wishful thinking.

Particularly the bits I've put in bold, we can't really quantify how widespread the issue is and by how much it's grown/reduced over the years without actual statistics of Somali-Australian male youth.

Even looking up how many Somalis are in Australia is a pain in the ass, because IIRC the Bureau counts people 'born in Somalia' not all of us of Somali origin so I don't think it's right for you to write it off as a very small minority. That's probably your bias as a Perth boy where the community is smaller than Sydney/Melbourne so the pool of saqajaan Aussie Abdis around you is minuscule.
Your right but we have to accept every group has bad people and good people and in our case we are better off than our cousins abroad with this hoodrat issue, so lets be grateful also wdym doesnt the census count somali people who label their ethnicity as somali?
 
As a UK somali boy, I agree, I feel sorry for somali women tbh. I don't think any other ethnicity in any other country can say on average they're doing better than us though.
What went wrong exactly,Somali women are just screaming for the bare minimum it’s not that hard to have a stable job and provide
 
Your right but we have to accept every group has bad people and good people and in our case we are better off than our cousins abroad with this hoodrat issue, so lets be grateful also wdym doesnt the census count somali people who label their ethnicity as somali?
When you look up "how many Somalis are in Australia?" on Google, you'll see the ABS giving you the answers separated by Australians whose nation of birth was Somalia and Australians of Somali ancestry from the most recent census back in 2021.

The problem is 'nation of birth' pops up first and is easier to look up than 'ethnicity/ancestry'.

People in Australia born back home (i.e. FOBs):

All Somalis in Australia (which might include half-Somalis who identify with their Somali side more) added up to 18,401 at the time. It's on a separate table that needs to be downloaded, not published plainly on the website and I can't upload it here because the forum doesn't support Excel files.

But it looks like this and I've highlighted the row that divides all Somalis in Australia by state as of June 2022.

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SaMale

The only Somali in Arabia
What went wrong exactly,Somali women are just screaming for the bare minimum it’s not that hard to have a stable job and provide
In my opinion and experience it's a combo of an easy life, mother's love, and a bad understanding of how to plan for the future and panic accordingly due to the above points. Also most somalis in general that I've met, have some type of behavioural or psychological defects because of their parents having grown up in a literal war, this isn't a problem if you can channel those problems into drive with a little intellect, but otherwise most somali men either crumble and have their manly initiative destroyed ,or become uncaring and addicts.
 

SaMale

The only Somali in Arabia
what’s wrong with going to university ?
Nothing, it's that the malis I see going to uni only go because of their mother telling them to. They lack initiative and in my opinion that's more important for an ethnicity success rather than blindly following cultural norms. And really do we need more degrees as a people or more rich somalis who can navigate a varied life and have the initiative and life instinct to make decisions for our people that have real effects without their mummies.
 

SaMale

The only Somali in Arabia
Bro described me am i cooked lmfao

But tbf that's most guys I see my age aside from work
Most young men today are so empty inside that even the things they do for fun is influenced wholly by others and not themselves. Nothing you see from them is them. It's only what they've been allowed to be. And unfortunately that is a pure form of masculine oppression therefore why you don't really see real men anymore.
 

SaMale

The only Somali in Arabia
Whats wrong with liking sports and being a salafi preacher. We need to stop this stupidity that you have to be perfect in order to get married, or you have to have figured out life. Back in the boomer generation in the west, you could have been a mailman, lower middle class, own a house, a car and have a family of 4-5 children. Ever watched the Simpsons?

Life is getting more and more expensive due to inflation, and salaries are not keeping up with inflation.

Women, need to stop their uncontrollable hypergamy. If a Somali male works with no criminal record, and he attends the masjid marry him.

These days you could be an engineer and still live with your parents cause living on your own is too expensive.

Also were I live, the native women have higher birthrate than second generation immigrant females. I believe the tfr amongst the Somali community is below 2 and the marriage rate is very low.
There's a difference between having physical success and being in mental and emotional spheres a man who has his life figured out. There are many millionaires who kill themselves, did they have life figured out? A perfect man doesn't exist, but as a man I find it easy to be a man. Every man knows how to be a man, the problem is they're too arrogant and scared to even try and be one. I kid you not, if I was a female I'd probably just get cat 🙀
 

SaMale

The only Somali in Arabia
Whats wrong with liking sports and being a salafi preacher. We need to stop this stupidity that you have to be perfect in order to get married, or you have to have figured out life. Back in the boomer generation in the west, you could have been a mailman, lower middle class, own a house, a car and have a family of 4-5 children. Ever watched the Simpsons?

Life is getting more and more expensive due to inflation, and salaries are not keeping up with inflation.

Women, need to stop their uncontrollable hypergamy. If a Somali male works with no criminal record, and he attends the masjid marry him.

These days you could be an engineer and still live with your parents cause living on your own is too expensive.

Also were I live, the native women have higher birthrate than second generation immigrant females. I believe the tfr amongst the Somali community is below 2 and the marriage rate is very low.
Personally, I feel that a woman wouldn't have a problem with a semi poor masculine man, and really the whole game of being a man is linked to having some solid designs on life to enrich your legacy and future decendants which some intelligent women must find attractive right?
 

Khaem

Früher of the Djibouti Ugaasate 🇩🇯
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Most young men today are so empty inside that even the things they do for fun is influenced wholly by others and not themselves. Nothing you see from them is them. It's only what they've been allowed to be. And unfortunately that is a pure form of masculine oppression therefore why you don't really see real men anymore.
I basically quit gaming until summer started and I was bored sitting on my pc some days and decided to boot up some games I owned on steam from 2021

I do not watch any shows since attack on titan years back which was really the only anime that had a grip on me.

Other than that my main focus now is gym work and finishing the pile of history books I left around on my other desk
 

Khaem

Früher of the Djibouti Ugaasate 🇩🇯
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Personally, I feel that a woman wouldn't have a problem with a semi poor masculine man, and really the whole game of being a man is linked to having some solid designs on life to enrich your legacy and future decendants which some intelligent women must find attractive right?
Depends, a woman of higher socio economic status wouldn't look at him. A woman doesn't date below her "level" simply because the man is more masculine and attractive.

This is how men think not women, buisness Men will happily fall in love with a McDonald's cashier but the opposite will never happen because that's not how biology works
 

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