Amongst young men, there is this view that women go out of their way to get a divorce so that they can get a fat cash pay out. This doesn’t make sense for a number of reasons:
1. Most people in the USA and the UK have no real saving that one can live off for at least half a year. Most people are cash poor.
2. The data shows that women don’t gain much from a divorce and in fact become poorer:
In fact, women become poorer when divorced than men do on average:
3. Unfortunately, poorer people are much more likely to get divorce. So to put it into perspective, it’s usually poorer men whom there is nothing to take who are mostly getting divorced.
Also, homeowners and educated men and women with college education are also less likely to divorce:
4. Contrary to popular belief, Women who are more likely to divorce: are from lower classes, have no education, no career, and poor husbands.
5. Women are less likely to divorce their rich husbands, in fact one of the main reason for divorce is due to financial reasons, cheating and communication issues:
6. Now let’s look at the average child support a woman in America gets:
Furthermore, more than half, do not even receive that.
7. The financial trajectory for women following a divorce is also the opposite of what you would expect if it were lucrative. Higher likelihood of poverty immediately following that eases over time as they re-enter the workplace.
The data seems consistent everywhere, hence why are redpillers, even normal men, recently Islamic YouTube speakers all creating the narrative that women on average amongst the average population gain from divorce? What is going on? Isn’t this false information ruining how young men view relationships?
Now if you're a multimillionaire and you don't want to be fleeced by a gold-digger that is not irrational. By all means be careful if you know that you're a valuable mark. But this is not what is happening with most divorces.
1. Most people in the USA and the UK have no real saving that one can live off for at least half a year. Most people are cash poor.
2. The data shows that women don’t gain much from a divorce and in fact become poorer:
In fact, women become poorer when divorced than men do on average:
3. Unfortunately, poorer people are much more likely to get divorce. So to put it into perspective, it’s usually poorer men whom there is nothing to take who are mostly getting divorced.
Also, homeowners and educated men and women with college education are also less likely to divorce:
4. Contrary to popular belief, Women who are more likely to divorce: are from lower classes, have no education, no career, and poor husbands.
5. Women are less likely to divorce their rich husbands, in fact one of the main reason for divorce is due to financial reasons, cheating and communication issues:
6. Now let’s look at the average child support a woman in America gets:
Furthermore, more than half, do not even receive that.
7. The financial trajectory for women following a divorce is also the opposite of what you would expect if it were lucrative. Higher likelihood of poverty immediately following that eases over time as they re-enter the workplace.
The data seems consistent everywhere, hence why are redpillers, even normal men, recently Islamic YouTube speakers all creating the narrative that women on average amongst the average population gain from divorce? What is going on? Isn’t this false information ruining how young men view relationships?
Now if you're a multimillionaire and you don't want to be fleeced by a gold-digger that is not irrational. By all means be careful if you know that you're a valuable mark. But this is not what is happening with most divorces.
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