Do you find it hard to be a good person?

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
I ask this, maybe as an being existing, asking myself this essential question.

It's easy to flaw yourself to wrong view of things:
becoming defensive wrongly to the point of being stern (or worse; combative), doing things that aren't necessarily wrong but not as productive. Being mad at others and not giving their side a chance, Disobeying an order from parents/doctor, not eating right e.t.c. I mean the list of personal flaws goes endless for so many others.

But here is somethings I believe that make me a good person, because this was years making in the progress. Props!

- I can reframe myself to easier goingness to the point of being calm
- I have positive self talks that help me affect the result of the positive things I know I do right
- Though it's not an easy balance but I generally don't care about what others think (and say) of me. We all like to be seen in our best shine but for me I have to live with myself no-one else has to (til I'm settled) so I try to be very considerate to others around me taking care of others (and the evironment) around me. Even before my own needs at times. Which is why I don't care for people's slight cos it don't mean anything, compared to my personal values.
- I do have habits and awareness of self-care by being-keeping clean
- Respecting others giving the under dogs and real cool people a chance. Ingenuity really helps us all out here with balance.

My journey between personal health and mental cadence along with the experiences I do have as well as the ones yet I have to experience while keeping at balancing is an excitingly stressful adventure.
There's many times I've contemplated on whether if my intent is truly for the greater good or from a lowly place. Yet I always double check myself and give others a try.

Most times, for myself, since I'm a calm go lucky guy that is kind of low key hyped - I know I can say for the most part the more sincerest is a really good person.

Others times - I be kind of shitty about things but in the end I go - well that wasn't so bad it could've been worst. So I consider myself a not so bad person.
But, kind of lowly in how I go about it - so yeah I can curse up a storm when I'm pissed so I'm doing better to be more conscious of my word power for myself to be better pleased.

I say these things because it's been a long struggle, to be balanced in mind and in what events.

Just remember now, I say to myself
"I'm not perfect I'm just honourable."

I think personal mantras help prevent our worst behaviour giving us some mindfulness.

Don't get it wrong either - having a plethora of sinful or horrible experiences doesn't make a person bad either just not as so good til corrected lol
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
Having things like faith in God and being patient to help keep hope alive for the best is also another way to keep yourself in the good person category.
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
Please remember being a good person doesn't always come with a hero cape.

There is always good if you know where to look.
 
Read Seerah of the Prophet peace be upon him. For example, When the Prophet gets mad you will know it by his face. He won't say mean stuff to you. If he dislikes food that was brought to him, he will only say he doesn't eat these type of food.
If you shake his hand, he won't let go until you let go of him. If you start talking to him he won't interrupt or leave until you finish. And most of all, he only got MAD at things conercering the religion. Salalaahu Alihi wasalam!
 
This is a good one by Imam Tirmidhi
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King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
I designed this thread to be less of an advice thread and more of a response to the user's minds type of thread.

"Feedback is a good experience.
Advice comes secondary" - Peace
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
See, by me opening up a piece of my experiences then the fellow posters can open to their experiences of how good they are (a self-evaluation if you will.) Which is a good pick-me up.

I'm sure advice will come with it along as everyone tells about their point of things but let's not be overly praiseful. Not just yet.
 
Personally, I feel like I'm too much of a good person, I've always been too honest, too empathetic, and too helpful to the helpless. Ofc it would be impossible to act this way with everyone but I manage to pull it off.
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King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
Okay it's safer to say you are all really bad.
So to hell with the lot of you 😂😂
#Sinners

Lol nah maybe not so bad, just do better!
👍
 

King Khufu

Dignified Gentlemen
Hating mofo's need to drop the behind the scenes conspiracy game and just come out in the open and get real about it, that's called setting it straight!

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