Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

[Sakiin]

Bro you should always wait and never apologise when she is in the wrong.

If an apology ain't forthcoming, don't bring up anything...act cool. Pick up her calls but act withdrawn, busy...in the end she will apologise.

If she doesn't then man you have to decide is it worth fighting her over it? If it isn't something too big then move on...forget about it...act like nothing happened.

However, if she crossed the line then you have to set things straight with her.

 

[ABG]

Pettiness and grudges are for women not men.

Any argument that transpires between a couple no one is ever 100% correct or 100% at fault.

So if for e.g she is 90% at fault but not mature enough to own up like the majority of women today

I will be the bigger person immediately and apologise for everything including on behalf of herself to myself in silence.

When you do this properly, your status and rank is elevated automatically and her libido and desires for you increases.

Being petty and argumentative is a feminine trait, it's beta in nature and shows deep levels of inadequacy about your manhood.

agree

 

[IstarZ]

Too much calaacal. Either sort it out or tough it out.

 

[Vanessa]

I've been super good to her. Make her laugh all the time to the point she has to wipe her tears, kept her company when her aunt was hospitalised. On our first day of talking she testified that I had good character (dabeecad).



People said that I chased you away from sspot.

Happy wife happy marriage
May Allah protect you and your family from evil and jealousy

 

[VixR]

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Remember an ex is an ex for a reason, dont forget that.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Abdalla you’re a grown ass man. No need to ask people of sspot how handle this situation. You just gotta weather the storm and play the ignoring game as well until one of y’all gives in. Let the games begin

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Happy wife happy marriage
May Allah protect you and your family from evil and jealousy

Sis he’s not married, it’s his afghani girlfriend.
She probably overheard him talking crap about her mustache.

 

[Abdalla]

Update:

She came back crawling.

 

[Calaf]

Update:

She came back crawling.

Praise the Lord!
Mashallah, May you never be separated again!!

 

[Abdalla]

Praise the Lord!
Mashallah, May you never be separated again!!

How's your eye my brother? Did you put on enough ice after she mercilessly threw a can of Dr. Pepper at you (not even Coca-Cola, the disrespect)

 

[Calaf]

How's your eye my brother? Did you put on enough ice after she mercilessly threw a can of Dr. Pepper at you (not even Coca-Cola, the disrespect)

My eye is recovering, yet it shown to me how much I like her
I want to do an grand gesture to her, but i don't know what to do
Any Advice?

 

[Abdalla]

My eye is recovering, yet it shown to me how much I like her
I want to do an grand gesture to her, but i don't know what to do
Any Advice?

Pull her up against the wall like she's Mona Lisa.

 

[Calaf]

Pull her up against the wall like she's Mona Lisa.

And get myself killed?

 

[Abdalla]

And get myself killed?

She just wants attention. Show her all the corners of the room, as the Dutch say.

 

[Calaf]

She just wants attention. Show her all the corners of the room, as the Dutch say.

I was gonna buy her an Gift (Most likely Gold) then give her attention later on

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Update:

She came back crawling.

Didn’t you admit to calling her? You probably threatened to drink bleach like a certain cousin of yours.

 

[Vanessa]

Sis he’s not married, it’s his afghani girlfriend.
She probably overheard him talking crap about her mustache.

@Abdalla why are u string along to your Afghani girlfriend? Is she your placeholder until u find a cousin to marry?