Do you think the mother is the as***** in this situation?

[somebody]

So I came across this thread on reddit.

What shocked the most was how majority of the people on that thread didn't think she was the asshole. I even came across a similar thread couple of months. I am shocked by how people think that refusing your biological child to see you is fine despite you bringing the child to this world. I am speechless.

 

[Yahya]

The dispicable life of zina. Poor child has to suffer.

 

[Jaydaan]

Absolute ash hole. How can you carry a child for 9 months and not to have anything to do with them. That child deserve to know where she came from and she owes the child a closer. She don’t want the child because the dad didn’t want her basically

 

[Lord of Warshiekh]

So I came across this thread on reddit.

What shocked the most was how majority of the people on that thread didn't think she was the asshole. I even came across a similar thread couple of months. I am shocked by how people think that refusing your biological child to see you is fine despite you bringing the child to this world. I am speechless.

The mother is a selfish pig. This is the reason why Adultery is/was illegal in most parts of the world, the child has to suffer because of selfish and feeble-minded parents.

 

[Mimir]

the reality of the matter is that the lady was selfish,irresponsible and childish.She didn't want to be accountable of the child's life.She didn't love the baby because of the father?That is a sign that she is emotionally lacking

 

[imperialist]

expect the feminist crusaders to arrive soon.

 

[MuMaMe]

Do you not see that We have sent the devils upon the disbelievers, inciting them to [evil] with [constant] incitement?
19:83

only a shaytan with a shaytan could justify this

 

[MuMaMe]

this is the reality that the likes of @AussieHustler and @Luciddreamer wish for the rest of us.
May Allah protect us from these shayateen and their fitnah.

 

[Furioso]

I can understand where she's coming from. She doesn't have any affection for the child and doesn't want to have any sort of relationship with her ex-husband. At the time she had the child, she was depressed. She just doesn't want to open up that chapter of her life again. It might be even worse for her to meet the child. The child might want to see her more and develop a relationship. I think she's doing what's right for her.

 

[Ramen]

Shes deffo cadaan

 

[Luciddreamer]

this is the reality that the likes of @AussieHustler and @Luciddreamer wish for the rest of us.
May Allah protect us from these shayateen and their fitnah.

Im very traditional, i dont cheat and i choose my relationships with care.

What this woman did was wrong, from the choice of her man
to how she dealt with her mistakes.

Why you talking like Muslims are the most noble people who never make mistakes?

We have devoted Muslims spreading HIV consciously back home,
what do you have to say about that sxb?

 

[Bohol]

Some women love the over their children so not surprised. In this case it is better the daughter forget about this woman since she will always see her father in her and hate her.

 

[VixR]

This was an adoption. Neither the parent or child have an obligation to know their biological child/parent.

She has no obligation to want to know a kid she gave up.

She wanted to abort in the first place in the tumultuous setting she was pregnant within. It was the then-husband that begged her not to.

When the baby was born, and the ex husband continued the relationship with the other woman, she got out, and in fact, signed over all her parental rights to the other woman. If this were a regular close-ended adoption, he would not have known how to get in contact with her, but being that she was his ex, he was able to circumvent that unjustly when she clearly stated it was to be closed, and that she didn’t want anything to do with him or the child.

 

[MuMaMe]

This was an adoption. Neither the parent or child have an obligation to know their biological child/parent.

She has no obligation to want to know a kid she gave up.

She wanted to abort in the first place in the tumultuous setting she was pregnant within. It was the then-husband that begged her not to.

When the baby was born, and the ex husband continued the relationship with the other woman, she got out, and in fact, signed over all her parental rights to the other woman. If this were a regular close-ended adoption, he would not have known how to get in contact with her, but being that she was his ex, he was able to circumvent that unjustly when she clearly stated it was to be closed, and that she didn’t want anything to do with him or the child.

Subhanallah
You actually believe this?

 

[Saredo]

I believe that children should never pay for their parents choice/mistakes. Poor girl didn't ask anything. I can understand that the mother was angry with the qashin husband but her baby is innocent. The 14 year old girl will develop resentment when she sees her biological mother treating well her half siblings. It might create psychological issues later.

 

[VixR]

Subhanallah
You actually believe this?

Do you know the meaning of adoption? If she had a stepmother for 14 years and still has her father, that’s more than many people can say. Pursuing a bio parent who wants nothing to do with you is not a good idea, and her father should not have contacted her when she’d made it clear so long ago. By doing that, he’s traumatizing his daughter unnecessarily.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I can understand where she's coming from. She doesn't have any affection for the child and doesn't want to have any sort of relationship with her ex-husband. At the time she had the child, she was depressed. She just doesn't want to open up that chapter of her life again. It might be even worse for her to meet the child. The child might want to see her more and develop a relationship. I think she's doing what's right for her.

But a real man should raise another man's child while a real mother should dump her biological child

Amazing IQ our xalimos have

 

[MuMaMe]

Do you know the meaning of adoption? If she had a stepmother for 14 years and still has her father, that’s more than many people can say.

Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment.

-Sura Al-Baqarah, Ayah 7

 

[IBRAHIM.]

Allah has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment.

-Sura Al-Baqarah, Ayah 7

Bro, stop quoting ayahs to people who believe it’s a lie sxb. It’s like arguing with a wall.

 

[IBRAHIM.]

So I came across this thread on reddit.

What shocked the most was how majority of the people on that thread didn't think she was the asshole. I even came across a similar thread couple of months. I am shocked by how people think that refusing your biological child to see you is fine despite you bringing the child to this world. I am speechless.

Tbh if this happened to me. I would kiss her forehead give her $5000 and tell her to f*ck off.
I wish it happens to me.