Does love exist??

[Macalin M]

As the title says. Do you believe Love exists. Personally I think only family love exists. The other love is fake.

 

[Basic]

Not if you’re Somali should be an option.

 

[Macalin M]

Not if you’re Somali should be an option.

So somalis can’t love?

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[Kanini]

Of course! If you look at your parents as an example you'd see it (depends on your parents though).

 

[Shmurda]

No.

 

[Basic]

So somalis can’t love?

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I don’t think majority know what it is tbh.

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[Macalin M]

Too many people get hurt because they believe in this love thing. It’s a scam. I ain’t ever been in love. I thought I did but I got bored after like a week of talking

 

[Kanini]

@Macalin M I found this post @Inquisitive_ wrote for me. Hope it helps.

Love is after marriage not before, anything else is just lust, the ayah in the quran is very explicit about this, those emotions are controlled by the most high, he flips it how he wants.

If you seek is through illegitimate means you will only be burned by it, even tough you may perceive it to be as something good.

 

[NINKII DHAKADA DHEERA]

love has been ruined by Hollywood now ppl think love is some la la land shit..imo lust is mistaken for love most can't tell love is not a feeling rather its an action that comes after marriage the moment a guy comes to conclusion that he wants to be a better husband and a good dad that's when his love has began..before that it wasn't love rather it was unending interest he had for that woman.

 

[Abdurahman_somali]

I don’t think majority know what it is tbh.

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[Macalin M]

@Macalin M I found this post @Inquisitive_ wrote for me. Hope it helps.

But how am I meant to marry someone I don’t love.

 

[HanadR6]

But how am I meant to marry someone I don’t love.

Lust + lust = love

 

[Hodan from HR]

Falling in love is lust driven. It happens accidentally like, "oops! I had a plan but I fall..."
Mostly people grow out of it and it does not last.

However, growning in love with someone is real. Most married couples will tell you, they love their partner more now than when they first met them. This is only possible with time and the couple sharing similar values.

We should aim to find someone to grow in love with not fall

 

[Kanini]

But how am I meant to marry someone I don’t love.

You don't. You grow to love them. Unless you want to do it in the way which is illegitimate, then go ahead. Usually you should look for someone who is compatible with you or strong on their Deen (and ticks your other boxes). Allah makes it easier for those who seek marriage in the righteous way.

 

[Halimo-2018]

love has been ruined by Hollywood now ppl think love is some la la land shit..imo lust is mistaken for love most can't tell love is not a feeling rather its an action that comes after marriage the moment a guy comes to conclusion that he wants to be a better husband and a good dad that's when his love has began..before that it wasn't love rather it was unending interest he had for that woman.

Even then maybe he just loves his kids and dint want to lose them or he still broke from all the money he spent on the wedding lol love is bs only real love is between a parent and their kids

 

[NINKII DHAKADA DHEERA]

Even then maybe he just loves his kids and dint want to lose them or he still broke from all the money he spent on the wedding lol love is bs only real love is between a parent and their kids

idk why but u strike me as a person whose destiny is to be a lonely single mom

 

[Macalin M]

Anyone here ever been in Love?

 

[Kanini]

Anyone here ever been in Love?

Nope. I sure do talk like I have been though

 

[Misil]

The hard truth is love ain't real. We just procreate for kids, all that feeling and emotion is make-believe

 

[Céleste]

Just give me my money. That's all I need.