don't you hate how as a girl you're either stuck up or naive (when it comes to men)

[angrycat]

people will call you naive or stupid if you can't figure out what a man is up to when you're being nice and friendly to him, but if you're more unopen you'll get called stuck up. I don't know what's expected, honestly

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Horta Adiga waxa tahay illahay ba oog lakiinse in my humble opinion Adiga both a tahay.

 

[Mckenzie]

You're absolutely right. It just comes back to the notion that people will criticise you no matter what you do. So you have to ask yourself, would you rather be called naive or stuck up?

 

[Sixth]

You could always just ignore the criticism depending on how it is delivered or if its baseless.

 

[54321]

Don't pay so much attention to that kind of stuff. Give people the amount of niceness you think they deserve. Don't switch up your behaviour towards individuals because you're worried about what some outsider is going to think about how you behaved. What is it to them anyway?

 

[Adam]

You were a sadsomali before now you're angrycat what happend?

 

[Siddhartha]

With all due respect waaalo, we dont talk to women for our health, we dont deal with mood swings, 2 am calls about nonsense, and hour conversations about your friend that you hate, for the sake of it, so please dont let the man die of blue balls.

 

[ironclad urchin]

i think u need to find the middle ground. be open friendly and whatever but also be perceptive and discreet. it is possible.