I was raised in the west and I think we do not celebrate eid properly. We wake up wear new clothes go to the masjid, Pray the eid prayer and go shopping and to some peoples houses. Sometimes I decide not to go places or if I had important things at school I would just go to school after eid prayer. If I have kids InshaAllah we will go to prepare amazing foods, have feasts. Get presents. Be with family and friends etc.