Family expectations.

[lone]

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[Jeesto]

My whole relatives have got involved now. They want me to marry my first cousin and bring her to Canada. It would be a green card marriage. They want me to get involved and set up the joint accounts, couple photos and fly down to Somaliland this summer and complete it. I am not even interested and not looking to get married until my early thirties. Somalis think marriage is a joke. Your input is greatly appreciated.

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[0117]

At times like this, you need to talk with your close irl friends about this as they would offer more tailored advice and support.
But regardless, you need to communicate with your parents and discuss your thoughts and feelings on the marriage.

 

[lone]

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I am not interested at all. Some people made promises and they are trying to use me as a scapegoat. I won't stand for it. Plus the legal consequences are detrimental to my health. (I don't want to turn khannis after serving my jail time)

 

[GlitzyCue_]

They can't force you lol... if your totally against it...refuse...also keep in mind that's illegal and if you were to get arrested you would be serving prison time for fraud also keep in mind if you ever acquire status in the future doing this will haunt you, I promise. The same way it haunts illhan
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On a third note there's really no point in going through with it cuz your cousin is ummm your cousin she probably can't speak English and will most likely be a future welfare recipient

 

[lone]

@Bidaar Wanagsan reminded me when he posted his green card scheme.

 

[lone]

My mother is the one I can not stand. She does not understand why it is wrong to f*ck your cousin.

 

[Saar]

My mother is the one I can not stand. She does not understand why it is wrong to f*ck your cousin.

Isn't it just for the papers

and man up and refuse if you don't want to, be honest and tell her the truth

 

[lone]

Isn't it just for the papers

and man up and refuse if you don't want to, be honest and tell her the truth

She wants an actual marriage and at the same time bring her over here. I did already. I don't live with my old man. He is the one behind the whole plot.

 

[Saar]

She wants an actual marriage and at the same time bring her over here.

Then go and talk to her in private and tell her what you thing about this, i actually feel bad for you right now

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

My mother is the one I can not stand. She does not understand why it is wrong to f*ck your cousin.

I suspect a lot of us struggle with the idea that any female gash is off limits, cousin or no cousin. Consanguinity is no bar to the urgings of the flesh. If it's tight, it's tight. None of this western nonsense please.

Don't listen to @Lola_Vonroe. She's a propagandist for third wave feminism. You don't need that white boy ideology. Keep it true to your African roots.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

I suspect a lot of us struggle with the idea that any female gash is off limits, cousin or no cousin. Consanguinity is no bar to the urgings of the flesh. If it's tight, it's tight. None of this western nonsense please.

Don't listen to @Lola_Vonroe. She's a propagandist for third wave feminism. You don't need that white boy ideology. Keep it true to your African roots.

White boy ideology lol? Avoiding being arrested for fraud is white boy ideology?

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

White boy ideology lol? Avoiding being arrested for fraud is white boy ideology?

Sure is homegirl. We be lowriders up in this .

 

[GlitzyCue_]

Sure is homegirl. We be lowriders up in this .

Ofcourse you don't care saaxiib, the sight of dick arouses you.

 

[lone]

Then go and talk to her in private and tell her what you thing about this, i actually feel bad for you right now

She has the upper hand. She is holding me hostage.

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

Ofcourse you don't care saaxiib, the sight of dick arouses you.

Brutal comeback.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

Brutal comeback.

It's okay I have friends from all backgrounds, everyone's treated equally

 

[Bidaar Wanagsan]

It's okay I have friends from all backgrounds, everyone's treated equally

I aint your friend naya. That word is missing three letters. It starts with B and rhymes with toy.

 

[Saar]

She has the upper hand. She is holding me hostage.

No she doesn't you are a grown man it's you life choice tell her doqonyohow is this even true to begin with, aren't you worried/scarred daqso what are you doing here

 

[GlitzyCue_]

I aint your friend naya. That word is missing three letters. It starts with B and rhymes with toy.

Iskabooji I don't have a dick