Faraxs, what do you think of xalimos who want to share cooking/cleaning with you

[Wervelwind]

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[Samaalic Era]

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Irresponsible and lazy

 

[Sol]

 

[Wervelwind]

Irresponsible and lazy

wallahi?

 

[anyways]

somalispot Faraxs waa dad dhintay oo caajis ah, ofc they are going to say no....

 

[Samaalic Era]

wallahi?

That's right sxb

 

[Furioso]

It’s not cool with me. 50/50 wax ciyaalsuuq waye. I expect the Farax to do all the cleaning and cooking.

 

[Wervelwind]

It’s not cool with me. 50/50 wax ciyaalsuuq waye. I expect the Farax to do all the cleaning and cooking.

Coming home to a clean house and bariis with kimiis and suugo with a banana on the side and a cold drink

 

[Macalin M]

75/25. She’s going to want to do more after she finds out I can only make two dishes kkk

so 85/15

 

[Wervelwind]

75/25. She’s going to want to do more after she finds out I can only make two dishes kkk

so 85/15

Marry a girl who can make 100 different dishes mashallah

 

[Furioso]

Coming home to a clean house and bariis with kimiis and suugo with a banana on the side and a cold drink

That’s it walaal. Lasagna everyday with banana and a mango drink.

 

[Alexander The Great]

Ofcourse a woman needs to cook tf nigga what else does a woman bring to the table?

 

[a y a n]

depends on if they’re both working
i’m planning on 75/25 cause imma work soooo
no compromise past that
the only time 95+ on the woman’s side is ok is when shes some bum sitting at home all day

 

[haqiiiiiin]

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they must bring money on the table and pay half of the bills and bring income in and provide the family then i wont mind then helping her with house work if not then fk it i wont help her with houseold

 

[Addislad]

If I am putting food on the table then you better do the chores

 

[beenleey]

Women doing all the chores at home is traditional thinking, and only makes sense if the husband is the only person working and provides enough for her and himself. In such cases I guess the household chores ”belong” to the woman.

Now if he expects her to bring in lacaag and at the same time also do all the chores then that’s xasid and slavery.

 

[Asrafael]

Go cagdheer on them.

 

[Lord Flacko]

Ofcourse a woman needs to cook tf nigga what else does a woman bring to the table?

Companionship and ability to foster kids?


Any man who doesnt atleast clean and help maintain the household isnt worth it. Older men cant really cook for shit in my opinion, but the youngings who can and should learn to can pitch in once in a while.


In the modern relationship, both parties are working so both should ne expected to pitch in with chores. How that is divied up is up to each relationship.

somalispot Faraxs waa dad dhintay oo caajis ah, ofc they are going to say no....

Theyre immature and will end up another example of a dysfunctional Somali household in the end.

But to answer the thread, it will be a requirement for me to cook at least 30% of the food, and minimum take care of the heavy duty household chores, and outside stuff. Just cuz Im a better cook than most people period, know how to make varied and nutritional shit and have been raised by a father who didn't slack around at home

 

[Nostalgia]

Irresponsible and lazy

What's wrong with helping your wife out? It's a nice gesture and shows that you care...

 

[Phiirso]

Companionship and ability to foster kids?


Any man who doesnt atleast clean and help maintain the household isnt worth it. Older men cant really cook for shit in my opinion, but the youngings who can and should learn to can pitch in once in a while.


In the modern relationship, both parties are working so both should ne expected to pitch in with chores. How that is divied up is up to each relationship.



Theyre immature and will end up another example of a dysfunctional Somali household in the end.

But to answer the thread, it will be a requirement for me to cook at least 30% of the food, and minimum take care of the heavy duty household chores, and outside stuff. Just cuz Im a better cook than most people period, know how to male varied and nutritional shit and have been raised by a father who didn't slack around at home

This.

I do my own cooking and cleaning already, but if I marry, those tasks belong to the women. But I'm still going to do my part but strictly speaking, that is her realm.