Fear of Commitment

[Mercury]

Alot of my friends and relatives have occasionally asked me When I'm getting married?

I mean I could get married I've got a job and a lot of saved up money

But Honestly its the thought of marriage that scares me

This is one of the reasons I don't go on dates I feel like What's the point of seeing someone I don't intend to marry it's just selfish and a waste of time

There's so much I want to do and achieve like building a huge house in Hargeisa, parachuting, sky diving, bungee jumping.

I just feel like marriage would hold me back/delaying me from achieving my goals

But inshallah! When I do get married I'm gonna be selfless, loyal, loving and nurture her to the best that she can be

 

[Inactive]

How old are you?

 

[Figo]

This is one of the reasons I don't go on dates I feel like What's the point of seeing someone I don't intend to marry it's just selfish and a waste of time

Adeer that's what I've been saying for a good minute. Now a days most people waste each others time Walahi.

 

[gilic mech]

Tap and bounce. tap and bounce . Age range of 18 to 24 never date a lady in her late 20s or early 30 .

 

[Mercury]

How old are you?

I'm 24

 

[The Informant]

Have you ever thought about exploring your sexuality?

 

[Mercury]

Have you ever thought about exploring your sexuality?

I already know girls turn me on

 

[Gambit]

I wont lie I've got commitment issues when it comes to starting a new tv show :/

 

[RoyalSomali]

We are the same age. You are too young to think to about marriage. Enjoy life and make more of your dreams to reality until you turn 30. I mean we are living in Europe not Somalia. Rather wait and have a succesful marriage rather than a marriage in a young age and a failure there are young failed marriages all over Europe now. Who says that you can not parachuting, sky diving, bungee jumping just because you got married ? its just have to be the right girl a Somali girl who grew up in Europe and has the same mentality, and wants adventure!

 

[Mercury]

We are the same age. You are too young to think to about marriage. Enjoy life and make more of your dreams to reality until you turn 30. I mean we are living in Europe not Somalia. Rather wait and have a succesful marriage rather than a marriage in a young age and a failure there are young failed marriages all over Europe now. Who says that you can not parachuting, sky diving, bungee jumping just because you got married ? its just have to be the right girl a Somali girl who grew up in Europe and has the same mentality, and wants adventure!

You're right man I do see a lot my age get married maybe that's why I think about It from time to time

I could see myself maybe getting married when I'm 28-30 and to someone whose born here in Europe

 

[RoyalSomali]

Look at those marriages in the next 5 years how many are still married ? or have many problems ? many I will guess. Most people finish their education and have a stable income in their late 20's.