First impression

[Geeljire lotus]

So there was a girl I was talking to for a min, she was in an another country but she’s from Where I’m from. We vibed real good talked everyday on the phone and texted, I really liked her but when we finally met up after a month of talking I fucked up and shit went left. Is there any chance for me to give her a different impression or should I just move on ?

 

[sailormoon]

Why u skipping what u did It truly depends on that tell us what u did

 

[King Khufu]

Know the feeling.
I also tried to meet several prospects in association,
However they weren't able to make the final cut.

Even when you have deep feelings for someone, if they're not shared back or hide/hesitant to be loyal than they're eventually just going to disappear at some point so I wouldn't get too attached.

 

[King Khufu]

There's is so many reasons as I said before why a chick would flake on a person.
Let me give you the short story: Another person's mind can be a scary place to detour.
So watch your visit!!!

(Petty reasons too: Hacked Accounts, Catphish Scammers, Back Bickering ((Like when someone tells someone else "Hey, don't mess with them they're a lame so act like you don't like them." or Spreading Rumors that are hateful to make you views unfavorably)), Personal distastes & hidden biases, Playing Hard to Get, Hidden Motives & Agendas, Cheaters, the headaches of possibilities is endless to keep going on so e.t.c.)

 

[pirater]

dude tell us what you did. We can't help you if you don't

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Why u skipping what u did It truly depends on that tell us what u did

I can’t lmaooo but it was bad

 

[King Khufu]

Personal bounce back point:
Do you have anything that caters to their personal interests?
Here's an example:
"Hey, you came across my mind. I know things wasn't steady last time but I figure I give you a call/text so we can fix this." or "Hey, was just thinking of you do you want anything you need?"

You got to get to the heart of the matter with the meat on the bones before you can expect a result from another person unless you have power over them to influence their decisions.
That's right learn to cut to the chase while making a strong point, past the cute talks.
For an example: Somebody that might be promiscious might want money first so they will be controlled by whoever pays them to be that way while a simple romantic girl might want something more honest like a long talk on a coffee date. So double check their intent before you get your head set where your heart at.

Certain people you will also have to accept aren't part of the bigger picture but fail not to embrace what they will teach you.

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So the lesson I learned is to remain calm that people may only be for limited time so better embrace the space you give them in the mind while they're still around because they may or may not do the same in return so learn what you can from all that is around.
It might sting if you had any personal attachments where I learned in buddhism is the root of all suffering to have the wrong attachments from bad mental associations/experiences.

 

[Taliso]

I can’t lmaooo but it was bad

Did you ask for her bank info? Did she find out you were a sca... Nvm

Jk

 

[King Khufu]

You just have to not care for anybody that doesn't show real interest.

 

[sailormoon]

You just have to not care for anybody that doesn't show real interest.

U seem like you’ve went through a lot ;( keep ur head up saxxib

 

[King Khufu]

U seem like you’ve went through a lot ;( keep ur head up saxxib

Hmm, maybe. Hasn't been easy but I feel alright for myself,
Then again on the other hand I don't feel so well at the same time.

I can't seem to make up my mind as I robotically gone through similar motions as OP in a lot of embarrassing private moments but that goes for unspoken because I know that some people just not meant to be even though I got over it but doesn't mean they're meant for us because it's not us.