For the new new Somalis would you marry a madhiban?

[Queen Carawelo]

I know everyone looks down on Somali families who disown their children who get married to madhiban people. But in 2016 would you marry a madhiban person and go against your family? It's easier said than done. Think about it and answer it honestly.

 

[Waranle]

My family already told me they wouldn't attend my marriage if I married a Midgaan or Tuumal.Very backward thinking wallahi.For that reason I dont think I will ever marry a low caste person

 

[Queen Carawelo]

My family already told me they wouldn't attend my marriage if I married a Midgaan or Tuumal.Very backward thinking wallahi.For that reason I dont think I will ever marry a low caste person

The correct term is Madhiban. Stop using slur words.

 

[John Michael]

Of course, if we were compatible and he/his family don't hold a grudge against my clan or any other clan.

Important members of my family don't care about clan. The ones that do are a test from Allah for me because they are difficult in other ways as well.

But I'd imagine that madibhan guys have their own girls that they would prefer to marry instead of the hassle of marrying someone from the other clans.

 

[Waranle]

The correct term is Madhiban. Stop using slur words.

It's not a slur term where I come from,thats their tribal name

 

[TibetanThug]

Madhibaan girls are beautiful

And no ones cares tbh my fam wouldn't give af

 

[Queen Carawelo]

It's not a slur term where I come from,thats their tribal name

Where you come from, you people treat them worse than animals. But your people hate anyone that's not Isaaq so I'm guessing it's normal for you guys.

Of course, if we were compatible and he/his family don't hold a grudge against my clan or any other clan.

Important members of my family don't care about clan. The ones that do are a test from Allah for me because they are difficult in other ways as well.

But I'd imagine that madibhan guys have their own girls that they would prefer to marry instead of the hassle of marrying someone from the other clans.

Their women are beautiful Mashallah. But the heart wants what it wants, people can't help falling inlove with others.

 

[Nural Aiyn]

My best friend is madhiban, and I respect them as people but they hold a lot of anger and grudge against us. Based on that no I wouldn't marry them. Sorry

 

[TibetanThug]

My best friend is madhiban, and I respect them as people but they hold a lot of anger and grudge against us. Based on that no I wouldn't marry them. Sorry

Is that u in the pic

 

[Queen Carawelo]

My best friend is madhiban, and I respect them as people but they hold a lot of anger and grudge against us. Based on that no I wouldn't marry them. Sorry

My bestie is a madhiban too and I've hanged around her family and most of her tribe and they all have positive things to say. I've never heard or saw them speak ill against other tribes. But her family were all born in Tanzania. So they're basically Sijui.

 

[Nural Aiyn]

QC..maybe your friend's family didn't experience any qabiil discrimination but mine has...so probably that's why. But overall they're good people

 

[SuldaanSeven]

Hell no! I want them to be treated better though since they are a minority

 

[Waranle]

Where you come from, you people treat them worse than animals. But your people hate anyone that's not Isaaq so I'm guessing it's normal for you guys.

Chill with your anti Isaaq crusade.I don't hate them,they are just an inferior race that should not intermarry with me or any of my clansman.

 

[Waranle]

QC..maybe your friend's family didn't experience any qabiil discrimination but mine has...so probably that's why. But overall they're good people

Ya habibti nurul 3ayni,is that you in the pic or are you one of those insecure dhuxul looking girls.I'm just curious

 

[John Michael]

Race

Good god you are stupid, they're exactly the same as any somali, except instead of being geeljires they were craftsmen.

You ain't special and I highly doubt madibhan girls are throwing themselves at you. Cago digo.

 

[Waranle]

Race

Good god you are stupid, they're exactly the same as any somali, except instead of being geeljires they were craftsmen.

You ain't special and I highly doubt madibhan girls are throwing themselves at you. Cago digo.

I am of noble Banu Hashim descent,Our blood is very precious

 

[leilamaryaneey]

Madhibaan girls are beautiful

And no ones cares tbh my fam wouldn't give af

This! My mother told me in her town the most beautiful girl was madhibaan,the girls seemed to be all beautiful, they couldn't find one of average beauty. And Every Madhibaan girl I've ever known since was qurux aan caadi ahayn. I know of One girl who is so strikingly beautiful, her whole family is just mashallah.

 

[Figo]

Madhibans don't really marry out. The few who do go through hell. I mean I've heard few stories where everything was going well till yaad tahay part comes and things tend to fall apart from there.

Ani I wouldn't care about qabiil. What I post on here is just banter. At the end of the day waxaan calaf u leeyahay ban heli.

 

[Waranle]

How can Midgaan or Yibir have the most beautiful girls when they are more inbred then somalis due to isolation.All the midgaan I have seen have been very ugly people even for somali standards

 

[leilamaryaneey]

How can Midgaan or Yibir have the most beautiful girls when they are more inbred then somalis due to isolation.All the midgaan I have seen have been very ugly people even for somali standards

You envy their beauty, skills and intelligence.
Perhaps isolation helped them since they happen to be more successful compared to other Somalis they do well here in the west.