Girls: I have a question for yall

[angrycat]

Does extreme niceness in a man make u lose interest? Im asking after reading one of @nucleus posts, because I thought it I was weird for feeling like that.

I dont know why it is, but I would prefer a man to be kind, yes, but still a bit aloof from me, and not too keen on showering me in affection and whatnot.

Im making the poll public so I know it is indeed a female user voting lol

 

[ironclad urchin]

tbqh yeah it does.
like whats their motive?
generally i prefer mean people, males and female. its hard to come by people who are genuinely nice for the sake of being nice and no other twisted reason (like getting something in return)

 

[Duchess]

It depends. I can tell when a man is genuinely kind vs faux kindness. I appreciate the former but find the latter to be creepy.