A lot of people have giving me shit for not having a real “career “. Actually, dog handling/walking is a very hard job to automate or to replace with machines. That’s because dogs are social animals and generally don’t like machines. My family is kinda disappointed. My mum’s side comes from a long line of very college educated . My grandma graduated from high school at 13. My dad really pushed me to college because none of his family is. He wanted me to go to vet school. Being a veterinarian is especially stressful and have a high suicide rate. Also, being a housewife is lame to ajnabis. I love to work, but my main goal in life is money. I don’t care about being rich, but self sufficient with a little extra.
Has anyone been judged by family and/or peers for their career choice ?
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Once told my mom what career I would want after high school inshallah she insisted I become a doctor... it then escalated into a debate....
Your career is fine as long as it makes you happy plus your helping animals that depend on humans 
Exactly!!! There’s a lot of people here that are welfare leeches. The people who give the most flack are from the hood .As long as you make a decent income, enjoy your job and you are happy, that is all that matters
Domestic animals have helped mankind survive since the dawn of time. Without dogs helping us hurt, cats killing vermin, and horses providing transportation humans would of fell to the other higher primates during the Ice Age.Your career is fine as long as it makes you happy plus your helping animals that depend on humans
Did you know that Somalis were the pioneers of animal husbandry ? And the Berbers developed a martial art based on horse riding? It’s called Fantasia.Your career is fine as long as it makes you happy plus your helping animals that depend on humans
digaagjecel
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My brother wanted to be a teacher and my parents said he was lazy. They also said that he’ll waste 5 years to just get paid a low salary. But in reality one of the most important thing each country needs is teachers.
I would have been branded a loser if I had refused to earn a post secondary education. It’s easier being a colored woman than a coloured man in the West. So many expectations from society and the world are expected from the average colored man. Why does a man have to be branded as a loser if he refuses to be employed or attain an education/skill?
The coloured women then take all these free passes from society and tend to subjugate the coloured man in the West. Why does the coloured man have to suffer to please the coloured woman?
The coloured women then take all these free passes from society and tend to subjugate the coloured man in the West. Why does the coloured man have to suffer to please the coloured woman?
For my dad, it’s the military or missionary work. They pushed gaining knowledge, but aren’t college folks. As long as you’re weren’t in manual labor work, they won’t judge.
I wanted to be a comic book artist. I broke my dad’s heart, when I went to art school. WORST.FINACIAL.DESCION.EVER.
Personally, as long as they tell me they're happy, seem happy, have a roof over their head and are eating I won't judge what my munchkins decide to do with their lives as long as it's not anything that harms others or is degrading for their soul and xaran like some form of prostitution.
As for me myself being judged? Story for another time.
As for me myself being judged? Story for another time.
digaagjecel
SSpots starting point guard
I understand that making your parents happy comes first. But if you end up doing a career you don’t want to your going to live a miserable life. I picked computer science to make my parents happy, I don’t hate it and I don’t love it. I picked a balance you know what I mean.
@Lady Mudblood you have my support.
Why everyone want to work high effort stressed full jobs?
Like I always say life should be easy and blessed
Why everyone want to work high effort stressed full jobs?
Like I always say life should be easy and blessed
QueenofKings
Kick in the door wavin the .44
My family is disappointed that I don’t have a career and don’t really care about having one.
