Has what you consider a "red flag" changed over the years?

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I've noticed that people who's family weren't particularly well off, or at least comfortable, growing up have a broken relationship with money.

So naturally, women from low socioeconomic backgrounds are a big no-no.

Women who don't have a good word to say about their ex/s are also a big no-no. Shit-talking someone you picked ultimately says more about you than it does about them.

 

[Royalflush]

I've noticed that people who's family weren't particularly well off, or at least comfortable, growing up have a broken relationship with money.

So naturally, women from low socioeconomic backgrounds are a big no-no.

Women who don't have a good word to say about their ex/s are also a big no-no. Shit-talking someone you picked ultimately says more about you than it does about them.

I’d say loud girls with lots of male friends especially on social media is a red flag that hasn’t changed much, or girls who know all the gossip and spread it. The former probably been around the block or likely to cheat cuz she has bare options and the latter can be toxic or bait out your secrets

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I’d say loud girls with lots of male friends especially on social media is a red flag that hasn’t changed much, or girls who know all the gossip and spread it. The former probably been around the block or likely to cheat cuz she has bare options and the latter can be toxic or bait out your secrets

Having options or guy friends doesn't necessarily leads to cheating.
But the constant need for attention and validation from others on social media is a big fat fucking ew.

 

[QueenofKings]

I've noticed that people who's family weren't particularly well off, or at least comfortable, growing up have a broken relationship with money.

I think this is inaccurate. The vast majority of people are not well off. Most Somalis in the diaspora are working class, yet the majority of Somali girls are not bad with money or materialistic. That’s a reach IMO.

 

[HiraanBorn]

Sxb my whole life has been a red flag since I was born

 

[Anisah The Serpent]

Sxb my whole life has been a red flag since I was born

Did your hooyo hit you with the hanger again?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I think this is inaccurate. The vast majority of people are not well off. Most Somalis in the diaspora are working class, yet the majority of Somali girls are not bad with money or materialistic. That’s a reach IMO.

You're probably right, but the ones I know spend money on frivolous shit. The idea of being someone's meal ticket makes me violently angry.

Sxb my whole life has been a red flag since I was born

Self-deprecation is unattractive, shape up sxb

 

[Naa]

Sxb my whole life has been a red flag since I was born

You will never get anywhere with that attitude

 

[HiraanBorn]

Did your hooyo hit you with the hanger again?

My hooyo doesn't hit me anymore, I'm too old for that now

 

[Anisah The Serpent]

My hooyo doesn't hit me anymore, I'm too old for that now

Lol somali kids start getting suicidal once their hooyo hits them.

 

[HiraanBorn]

You will never get anywhere with that attitude

Allow me to pity myself, it gives me comfort Abaayo

 

[Naa]

Allow me to pity myself, it gives me comfort Abaayo

No. That's yucky!

 

[HiraanBorn]

Lol somali kids start getting suicidal once their hooyo hits them.

Why do you keep imagining children getting hit by their Hooyos?
Does that excite you, you sadists

 

[HiraanBorn]

You're probably right, but the ones I know spend money on frivolous shit. The idea of being someone's meal ticket makes me violently angry.

Self-deprecation is unattractive, shape up sxb

I don't want to be attractive, I want to be understood walaal

 

[PrettyRicky]

1. No job but always travelling solo. Major red flag.
2. Has problematic family members.
3. Attention lover online

 

[HiraanBorn]

No. That's yucky!

Fine, have it your way.

 

[Anisah The Serpent]

Why do you keep imagining children getting hit by their Hooyos?
Does that excite you, you sadists

No, it’s true though.

 

[HiraanBorn]

No, it’s true though.

What's true?

 

[Naa]

What's true?

That she's a weirdo freak sadist

 

[HiraanBorn]

That she's a weirdo freak sadist

Honestly, she creeps me tf out