So, I’m back from Mexico and in Germany again.
My Siblings and I went to Mexico for a funeral of my uncle and my mum said that she rather stay in Somalia but ultimately came because I don’t know . So the funeral was beautiful ( I don’t know if it’s the right word but..) because they didn’t everything exactly as he wanted it and no one was supposed to cry and everyone should celebrate his life instead of mourning his death.
The week I’ve stayed there I connected with so many „cousins“ and family members it was great, but like in every family gathering there were drama like a lot. Two days after the funeral at a dinner my „cousin“ stood up and said that he doesn’t believe in god and he doesn’t want to be catholic and in the same sentence he came out as gay..my great aunt cried and he ran out with his mum. My sister got major side eye from my aunts because of her Niqab, but she didn’t care for it cuz the aunt at which house we stayed at loved that she is so devouted to her religion. But she had like rules, that we couldn’t walk around the house with sweatpants, we always had to be fully dressed in case visitors came, which was weird a lot of people came but most didn’t care for her lost and just wanted to see her sad, I felt like ? Oh the best part was that the will was read 4 days later and my siblings and I got the city apartment of my uncle, so we could visit more often... and my mother had the idea that my aunt should spent time here with us instead of over there alone. That’s why I’m back earlier
My Siblings and I went to Mexico for a funeral of my uncle and my mum said that she rather stay in Somalia but ultimately came because I don’t know . So the funeral was beautiful ( I don’t know if it’s the right word but..) because they didn’t everything exactly as he wanted it and no one was supposed to cry and everyone should celebrate his life instead of mourning his death.
The week I’ve stayed there I connected with so many „cousins“ and family members it was great, but like in every family gathering there were drama like a lot. Two days after the funeral at a dinner my „cousin“ stood up and said that he doesn’t believe in god and he doesn’t want to be catholic and in the same sentence he came out as gay..my great aunt cried and he ran out with his mum. My sister got major side eye from my aunts because of her Niqab, but she didn’t care for it cuz the aunt at which house we stayed at loved that she is so devouted to her religion. But she had like rules, that we couldn’t walk around the house with sweatpants, we always had to be fully dressed in case visitors came, which was weird a lot of people came but most didn’t care for her lost and just wanted to see her sad, I felt like ? Oh the best part was that the will was read 4 days later and my siblings and I got the city apartment of my uncle, so we could visit more often... and my mother had the idea that my aunt should spent time here with us instead of over there alone. That’s why I’m back earlier
good luck
