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Our unique pastoralist roots for thousands of years forced the man to travel to great distances with their camels for grazing and new pastures, while the women was left at home with the elderly of the tribe and a few goats for prolonged period of times.
When the distances became too great, he would return and the nomadic migratory lifestyle would resume, this gave our women incredible amount of freedom and responsibilities deeply embedded in their psyche which most other races of women never had including a deep level of trust built up over centuries of status quo
Hence you see this today even in the west, the mothers run the show, she controls the bank cards and finances in the house regardless if the husband works or not, she even controls how the wedding ceremony is run for her daughter.
She leaves the house when she wants, goes wherever she want’s without any explanations or consultations with anyone, I used to be told that even in Shiisha places our women are there at the latest times, only ones remaining their beyond midnight enjoying their freedom.
This is in contrast to the Bedouin/farming communities which existed in the majority of the rest of the world, in such a scenario the women was no different from cattle, she never experienced much freedom or responsibilities and was protected with an iron fist by wicked insecure Authoritarian figures whom were always close to her.
So what do you think happens to women that experienced 1000 years of Freedom, responsibilities & trust when she ends up with a man who has a history of 1000 years of Bedouin or farming culture with insecure authoritarian rule embedded in his psyche? Fireworks! & Broken homes
I see this time and time again and no one figures out why! Even the Somali male’s that marry out particularly to Arab/Asian women are looked upon as Doqomo, because the crazed insecure chest thumping fake bravado authoritarian rule is not in our DNA and that’s what these women are used to and see as manly in their psyche.
When the distances became too great, he would return and the nomadic migratory lifestyle would resume, this gave our women incredible amount of freedom and responsibilities deeply embedded in their psyche which most other races of women never had including a deep level of trust built up over centuries of status quo
Hence you see this today even in the west, the mothers run the show, she controls the bank cards and finances in the house regardless if the husband works or not, she even controls how the wedding ceremony is run for her daughter.
She leaves the house when she wants, goes wherever she want’s without any explanations or consultations with anyone, I used to be told that even in Shiisha places our women are there at the latest times, only ones remaining their beyond midnight enjoying their freedom.
This is in contrast to the Bedouin/farming communities which existed in the majority of the rest of the world, in such a scenario the women was no different from cattle, she never experienced much freedom or responsibilities and was protected with an iron fist by wicked insecure Authoritarian figures whom were always close to her.
So what do you think happens to women that experienced 1000 years of Freedom, responsibilities & trust when she ends up with a man who has a history of 1000 years of Bedouin or farming culture with insecure authoritarian rule embedded in his psyche? Fireworks! & Broken homes
I see this time and time again and no one figures out why! Even the Somali male’s that marry out particularly to Arab/Asian women are looked upon as Doqomo, because the crazed insecure chest thumping fake bravado authoritarian rule is not in our DNA and that’s what these women are used to and see as manly in their psyche.
Arawelo had the right idea... Y'all have been getting away with too much
