How do we protect ourselves from being secretly recorded or photographed in the bedroom?

[Yaraye]

I've recently heard a horror story about a muslim woman divorcing her husband and her husband distributing explicit photos of her without her consent. This seems to be a rising problem in the muslim community, especially with the increased usage of social media in this decade. These types of stories are increasing rapidly. Some women will have shared pics with their husbands. Others got secretly recorded or photographed without their knowledge and consent during intimate acts in the bedroom. Currently, many women have put down a boundary with their husband regarding no photos at all at home, but yet still come to find explicit photos of themselves out in the world. This is a new fear many women have developed.

Ladies, any ideas on how to protect yourself from being secretly photographed or recorded by your husband without your knowledge or consent?

 

[Peppar]

A way to protect yourself against that is not marrying a psychopath. Now knowing who is or isnt a psycho is another thing.

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[Moon-]

A way to protect yourself against that is not marrying a psychopath. Now knowing who is or isnt a psycho is another thing.

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[Peppar]

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[munaad]

I also heard a story of a man sharing videos of his NIQABI wife online. Alx he was caught though. But honestly, the best thing to do is to have a no phones in the bedroom rule because theres really no reason to have your phone near during sex. You also just have to have faith in your husband that he's a good man who loves and respects you.

 

[Bari]

Why tf would someone do that to the potential mother of their children, the internet is forever. Theres some sick people in this dunya oo bila aqli ah.

 

[Kalsoon]

When looking for someone, look at how much integrity and honesty the person has. If they have morals and principles. That kind of person won’t turn away from their values just because y’all divorced. They’re not petty like that.