How do you deal with relationship problems family and friends

[Hali]

Why do some people like to talk about how something made them feel and address the person that made them feel that way, without any regard to how the situation arose and what part they played in it.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

That's one of my biggest pet peeves. I hate it when people completely avoid speaking about how their words and actions caused the situation and want to play the victim.

 

[Hali]

That's one of my biggest pet peeves. I hate it when people completely avoid speaking about how their words and actions caused the situation and want to play the victim.

It just seems manipulative

 

[Sloane Ranger]

It just seems manipulative

I just walk away and ignore the person. You can't reason with someone dishonest. I will cut ties with the person if they don't take it back. I hate dramatic people and liars.

 

[Basra]

Why do some people like to talk about how something made them feel and address the person that made them feel that way, without any regard to how the situation arose and what part they played in it.

Drama Queens huuno. For me how i handle it is-- pick something i did and admit it openly.


For example YOU, @Hali


You are not normally the first to start a drama. But you always finish it in a nasty way by saying something mean. So here is how u handle it



"Ok i am sorry to say those mean things. I was mad. But what will you take responsibility in this matter. Vocalize for me what u did to start this disagreement. Notice i used the word disagreement to not blame either of us, a neutral stance.

If they cannot openly admit to doing something bad, then u r dealing with an insane person. Avoid & Duck.

 

[Hali]

Drama Queens huuno. For me how i handle it is-- pick something i did and admit it openly.


For example YOU, @Hali


You are not normally the first to start a drama. But you always finish it in a nasty way by saying something mean. So here is how u handle it



"Ok i am sorry to say those mean things. I was mad. But what will you take responsibility in this matter. Vocalize for me what u did to start this disagreement. Notice i used the word disagreement to not blame either of us, a neutral stance.

If they cannot openly admit to doing something bad, then u r dealing with an insane person. Avoid & Duck.

I did I pointed out everywhere I went wrong they proceeded to say I’m emotionally unstable and they’re still right.

 

[Basra]

I did I pointed out everywhere I went wrong they proceeded to say I’m emotionally unstable and they’re still right.

No, do not allow them to make excuses by saying they can't help it.

Make them admit their specific action in the matter. Otherwise they repeat it again and again.

@Hali and u stop being judgy low key style, not everybody is put together like u


HA HA HA HA HA HA

 

[Hali]

No, do not allow them to make excuses by saying they can't help it.

Make them admit their specific action in the matter. Otherwise they repeat it again and again.

@Hali and u stop being judgy low key style, not everybody is put together like u


HA HA HA HA HA HA

I can’t the whole family will turn against me and I don’t need that headache.
I can’t help it

 

[Basra]

I can’t the whole family will turn against me and I don’t need that headache.
I can’t help it

 

[Sloane Ranger]

@Hali are you trying to get away with bullying your own siblings ?

 

[Hali]

@Hali are you trying to get away with bullying your own siblings ?

I don’t bully anyone, I just trigger them now and again marku ciilka iga bato
And they’re older than me

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I don’t bully anyone, I just trigger them now and again marku ciilka iga bato
And they’re older than me

You should start showing some respect your older siblings. If you

feel ciil go pray salat and read Quran. Emotional outbursts are not cute.

 

[Hali]

You should start showing some respect your older siblings. If you

feel ciil go pray salat and read Quran. Emotional outbursts are not cute.

 

[المهندس]