How do you know if a girl is real loyal?

[King Khufu]

I don't think it exists at all (on this western side of the planet),
but whose to say other places it isn't different otherwise elsewhere.
(I know some ladies other places are more open to a luxurious treatment.)

Just give me some ideas because I wouldn't know.

 

[trucel]

Only time will tell , you cant guarantee loyalty with anyone. Most humans are duplicitous creatures and will stab you in the back. The only people i trust 100% are my family and close friends from day 1.

 

[Sophisticate]

If your parameters for loyalty are in remaining faithful and sexually exclusive within a long term marriage/relationship then yes that's certainly within the realm of possibility.

However if it's blind unconditional loyalty. Then no. I don't think such a thing exists. And it should not if you rightfully go to prison for murder, are abusive and highly neglectful or suffer from a chronic addiction.

 

[Omar del Sur]

she lives during the time of the sahaba

 

[Abdalla]

You cultivate loyalty by controlling her. You should be her ears and eyes. Eliminate external influencers such as her friends and family. Unloyal features usually comes from those two.

 

[King Khufu]

your parameters for loyalty are in remaining faithful and sexually exclusive within a long term marriage/relationship then yes that's certainly within the realm of possibility

Yes of course, not without realistic give and take expectations - that's just the natural thing to do being responsible anyways.

However if it's blind unconditional loyalty. Then no. I don't think such a thing exists.

I wouldn't say that - I say people make those choices for who they love the most deeply cherish. That's never a absolute given. No.

it should not if you rightfully go to prison for murder, are abusive and highly neglectful or suffer from a chronic addiction.

Nobody who participates in wrong doings openly deserve anyone good for them in return (unless it helps them become better people if God wills it.)
However, luckily for the average person that are moral in their faith
Most of us are decent good people that aren't into criminal behavior that behaves respectfully.
So as long as people like myself keep clean and ability to take care of one's self surely would have no problems meeting one another who increases that joy!
(she'll be a special lucky lady to know my acquaintance.)

You cultivate loyalty by controlling her.

You're Machiavellian Macho today aren't cha?
I don't think any living thing likes being "controlled" it just isn't the way we wired to be.

such as her friends and family. Unloyal features usually comes from those two.

Bad friends normally try to steer wrong out of either protection, loneliness, jealousy, or that girl just already had boy in her pants!
Somali girls and their parents criticize everybody!

 

[mr.overeasy]

I don't think it exists at all (on this western side of the planet),
but whose to say other places it isn't different otherwise elsewhere.
(I know some ladies other places are more open to a luxurious treatment.)

Just give me some ideas because I wouldn't know.

you don't, any and nearly every woman will cheat given too many options. Prevent this as much as possible through being territorial and making sure your wife doesn't go where she wants without telling you, and no male friends.

Dayooth (cuckold) men are the worst and are never going to go to jannah.

Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar(radhi`Allaahu anhu ) reported that the Prophet (salAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) said:

“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.”

 

[mr.overeasy]

You cultivate loyalty by controlling her. You should be her ears and eyes. Eliminate external influencers such as her friends and family. Unloyal features usually comes from those two.

not by controlling, by guiding. Telling a woman too much about what to do or not will burn her out, limit this by being proactive and avoiding many problems all together.

Instead of complaining about male friends, avoid women who do such in the first place and make it a condition of marriage that she doesn't do that for example.