how effective is dhaqan celis?

[Trailblazer]

Ah Dhaqan Celis, the means by which family get rid of black sheeps, but does it work, what effect does these cast of kids have on the population back home and do somalis not any coping strategy to deal with their delinquent children rather than send them back home.

 

[Hubble]

It doesn't work. They always go to the cities and find drugs and girls. I know a dhaqan celis kid who was shot dead for showing off. It's a silly idea. The real behavioural adjustments should be done at home while they're young.

 

[Trailblazer]

It doesn't work. They always go to the cities and find drugs and girls. I know a dhaqan celis kid who was shot dead for showing off. It's a silly idea. The real behavioural adjustments should be done at home while they're young.

I think that the parent trying to shirk their responsibilities, the young people are delinquent in west and delinquent back home but now they have money from mommy and daddy. their like the relatives from back home, siphoning off money from struggling families . you want you kids to behave less like westerners, raising them in somalia, send them to private school and only bring them back when they in their teens. its the only way to save your kids.

 

[John Michael]

One of my cousins went to dhaqan celis, mostly staying with his grandmother in remote areas. Tbh it worked because he was/is an easily influenced person. I wouldn't suggest it, parents need to talk frankly with their children and respect their opinions. They won't have anything to rebel against if you don't treat them as a prisoner or enemy.

There's no point in sending your kids to large cities lol.

 

[Hubble]

I think that the parent trying to shirk their responsibilities, the young people are delinquent in west and delinquent back home but now they have money from mommy and daddy. their like the relatives from back home, siphoning off money from struggling families . you want you kids to behave less like westerners, raising them in somalia, send them to private school and only bring them back when they in their teens. its the only way to save your kids.

If they're really looked after by family and have strong male role models like a real uncle or grandfather they're OK. But if you send them to an aunt with few close relatives around they'll take the piss. It should only be short term or they'll miss out on education. I think the whole family should relocate with the troubled child and that would be wholesome and less shame inducing on that one kid. They might make a total change if they're not being dropped off on their own.

 

[Trailblazer]

If they're really looked after by family and have strong male role models like a real uncle or grandfather they're OK. But if you send them to an aunt with few close relatives around they'll take the piss. It should only be short term or they'll miss out on education. I think the whole family should relocate with the troubled child and that would be wholesome and less shame inducing on that one kid. They might make a total change if they're not being dropped off on their own.

horte, have uncles/aunts every taken advantage of heir wayward wards. don't send them to school and pocket the money sent by the parents or worst stolen the kid Sharci.

 

[Hubble]

horte, have uncles/aunts every taken advantage of heir wayward wards. don't send them to school and pocket the money sent by the parents or worst stolen the kid Sharci.

They'd have to be really brave and conniving to do that. Once the sharci's gone missing they'd have to leave before it gets reported and risk getting found out wherever they've gone to. The family usually send a stipend for the relative and it's usually someone the mum and dad send money to or are in close contact. If not they should expect some xaasidnimo lol

 

[Mercury]

It can work depending on where you send them and you have a good relatives who guide them and take good care of em

My cousin he couldn't speak somali well prolly the same language skills of a 5 yr old so he got sent down straight to miyiga was there for a entire year hes changed in a good way now.

However i believe sending your kid for dhaqan celis should be last option

Parents need to be strict with their rules , make sure if your kids dont follow or listen to your rules there will be consequences, reward good behavior and last but not least make sure to be around in their lives no matter what.

Im sure if u follow this you wont need dhaqan celis

 

[menace]

Totally counter productive ..they took a crack head from my city to SOMALIA and report is coming out from there saying that he is down to 105 pounds ..from heavy use of weed and probable sexual cudur

 

[CrazyWadaad]

Dumping western trash back to Somali areas will do nothing.They will continue their evils there and might have a bad affect on the local population.

 

[Tramo]

i had a friend who was a thorn in his mom's side from a young age. dude was in a gang from like grade 6. eventually she shipped him off to uganda to stay with his grandma or some shit. he was there for a good like 4 years maybe

thought he was gone for good, but then his mom brought him back. walahi dude didn't miss a beat, picked up exactly where he left off and didn't change a bit

 

[Khathead]

Don't send those degenerates back home... If they are that fucked up sign them up for the army or something.