How long would you wait to remarry again?

[Gibiin-Udug]

How long would you wait to remarry if your spouse died?


I would wait 4 years. God Forbid. If I've babies I would wait until they become a little bit independent.

 

[Mohamud]

Man I really don't know. I can totally see myself taking years to get over something like that. Nobody's died in my life thus far so I literally have no way to frame things.

If I had kids they'd just become my focus at that point. Remarrying wouldn't be a priority.

Mayne imagining my kids losing their mother young terrifies me. They'll prolly need her waaaay more than me.

 

[CitrusFlower]

I feel like this is something you can't truly answer until it actually happens to you God Forbid. However, life has to go on and therefore I would not dismiss love.

 

[Transparent]

How long would you wait to remarry if your spouse died?


I would wait 4 years. God Forbid. If I've babies I would wait until they become a little bit independent.

It depends on the situation.If my wife and i were madly in love then i would probably not remarry. Neverhteless if we had kids i would focus on them and make sure that i wont remarry until they are old enough to take care of themselves.

 

[VixR]

It's probably depends on a bunch of factors; how long u were with them and how much u loved them, if it was ur first encounter with death, whether children are involved, how u deal with grief.

I really hope it doesn't take four years, that's a considerable chunk of life real estate.

For me, someone I was dating died that I really liked, and it was weird bc it was my first death experience and then suddenly someone else in our lives died (kid of a family friend, practically grew up together) from an accidental overdose (he took something at a party and his mom found him dead in his bed the next day when she tried to wake him for salah on a weekend morning), so the two meshed in a weird way. I don't think I'm done yet and it's been almsot a year. I gave myself a year (probably sounds weird)z It comes in waves. Can't take another year. It should be done b4 then. I know it's probably not the same as a spouse, but I don't think that matters, it's death right? My rational self thinks the dead are gone and dead cold, just sort yourself out.

 

[Mohamud]

It's probably depends on a bunch of factors; how long u were with them and how much u loved them, if it was ur first encounter with death, whether children are involved, how u deal with grief.

I really hope it doesn't take four years, that's a considerable chunk of life real estate.

For me, someone I was dating died that I really liked, and it was weird bc it was my first death experience and then suddenly someone else in our lives died (kid of a family friend, practically grew up together) from an accidental overdose (he took something at a party and his mom found him dead in his bed the next day when she tried to wake him for salah on a weekend morning), so the two meshed in a weird way. I don't think I'm done yet and it's been almsot a year. I gave myself a year (probably sounds weird)z It comes in waves. Can't take another year. It should be done b4 then. I know it's probably not the same as a spouse, but I don't think that matters, it's death right? My rational self thinks the dead are gone and dead cold, just sort yourself out.

Somebody you dated died? Shit. That sounds brutal.

 

[VixR]

Somebody you dated died? Shit. That sounds brutal.

First guy I gave a real chance. Car accident. It was a drunk driver on New Years eve. It's just around the corner.

Stay safe out there, guys.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

I wouldn't wait lol

 

[madamelioness]

I don't think I would remarry. It would feel so unnatural to me but Allahu Aclam,

For those of you who lost loved ones, may you find the strength to move forward.

 

[Ferrari]

It'd depend on loads of things. Let's just hope none of us go through that. I know one guy who's been through it and dude was broken and last I checked(after five years of her death), he did not move on.

 

[Mercury]

Its hard thing to go through with kids I would imagine it would definetly take some more time