How the women haters on this forum sound
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wallahi at this point they just like the sound of their own voice. What happened to putting a voice note in your phone? Now they made it everybody else's problem.
CalmOne20####
Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
I'm starting to hate faaraxs
Nilotic
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From what I can see, Somalis get along in real life; the internet isn't real life
CalmOne20####
Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
I know but still when your own people are insulting you it's hard to see the positives.
Nilotic
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I can understand that, but I hope that you'll see that the more you interact with negativity, the more it gives the utterly false impression that it is all that is.
I've studied with Somalis and I didn't see any of this internet nonsense
Yaraye
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It depend on which faarax you run into. On here I can see why you are starting to dislike them. Wallahi, I've been lucky to run into decent faaraxs irl. Which is why when I read some of the stuff they write on here, I actually get flabbergasted.
They say what they're too afraid to say out loud on here
But you stated you like your "Aryan kings". So not sure why what Faraxs say matter to you.
U a female or male ?
This.
The internet provides a safety net and people can act how they want without fear of reprisal. So when these men call for women to be abused and have our rights stripped from us, they are expressing their true desires. It reminds me of those live video games, where boys and men bully women and sexually harass them and even sexually assault them.
Naturally, this is not to say all men are like that, because when the weird men have their sexist festivities, there are some men who speak up and express the opposite opinion.
Yaraye
VIP
you?
Male
Yaraye
VIP
girl
I thought this was a man at first who was gay, then I realized its a women with makeup on, she surprising can pull off being gay man.
Anyway her thing makes no sense, guys like this are clearly not guy, hating women doing some stuff does not mean they are gay, its a funny insult but in reality it has no basis
Yaraye
VIP
That's terrifying to think of.
If men truly think like that, then ya rabiyal cadeem.
No matter how much they day dream of that shit, it's not gonna happen. I think so......Hopefully.....
That's terrifying to think of.
Not all Alhamdulilah.
I just want to know what went wrong in their lives, so that we can take preventative measures for young boys.
Yaraye
VIP
I don't have any brothers. I do have a lot of male 1st cousins that I was neighbors with and grew up with for practically my entire life. None of them are damaged, or hate women. They were kept busy and not allowed to interact. Can't be damaged if you don't interact with women. these were some of the rules at home for all of us
1- They kept the boys (and girls) extremely busy. They went to school.If they weren't at school, they went to tutoring. If they were not at both, then they were a dugsi. If they were not at dugsi, then they were at machad. It was a rotation of education instituions. Our daily schedule was: school/ dugsi (depending on what day it is) in the morning, go home, eat, memorise quran (1/2 pg or 1 pg was the requirement for each afternoon), homework, house chores, sleep. Next day same shit. the only time we got electronics or free time was sunday after dugsi.
2- our school had a portal where they showed our grades. All adults had an access to our portal. anything below a grade "B" wasn't allowed. If you scored less. No going out, no freetime. If you didn't pass your dugsi assignment same punishment.
2- No one was allowed to leave home unless they had a reason. The reason had to be productive like school, Dugsi, masaajid, tutoring, or gym. Going out with friends wasn't allowed unless you specified what friends and what location you're going to. If it wasn't a special occasion (like wedding, graduation, baby shower...etc), most likely my mother/ aunts would say no to go out with friends. You can't just put on your shoes and say "Hooyo I'm going out with habal habal." We also couldn't go to the mall with friends, potential straying/ haram. we could go out to eat tho, but all friends had to be of the same gender. opposite gender friends weren't allowed.
3- If you do go out there were conditions:
> Location on phone MUST be on at all time and SHARED every 30 min
> You cannot go to a different location you didn't ask permission from hooyo before hand.
> you must go where you said you were going, no where else, and come straight back.
> You must be back by the time you said you would be back, not a min later
> If by qadarul allah, that snow or other things that are outside of your control causes you to be late. You must send a new location and facetime to show you're on your way home.
> You absolutely cannot interact with the opposite gender. (my mother/ aunts would disallows to go to places where gender mixing and potential haram can take place, like parties. If it was a wedding, it must have separate sections.
> If you didn't get home on time and didn't notified you were gonna be late, You will never be able to go out with friends again (some of my siblings/ cousins has this privilege taken away from them until they hit collage, adults in my fam were serious about this one)
4- No electronics
> Not allowed to have social media
> Didn't get phones until collage, it we needed to do electonical school work there was a computer at home to get that shit done. The computer would be against the wall so that everyone can see what you're doing.
This was how we were raise both the males and females in my mother's and aunt's household. Each day we must have completed our school assignments and show it, Memorized our quran and pass it, study for our exam and be tested (by sibiling or parent) complete our house chores, then go to sleep. We were kept so busy that we rarely had freetime. This started for us from the moment we began to go to school until w graduate highschool. its a bit more lax when we started collage but the "going out rules" still apply. No going out unless is productive. The adults kept all of us on a tight leash. We didn't have no chance of stray and still don't have no chance of straying
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Im going to be honest your family did well may Allah bless them if I had kids this is what I would do.I don't have any brothers. I do have a lot of male 1st cousins that I was neighbors with and grew up with for practically my entire life. None of them are damaged, or hate women. They were kept busy and not allowed to interact. Can't be damaged if you don't interact with women. these were some of the rules at home for all of us
1- They kept the boys (and girls) extremely busy. They went to school.If they weren't at school, they went to tutoring. If they were not at both, then they were a dugsi. If they were not at dugsi, then they were at machad. It was a rotation of education instituions. Our daily schedule was: school/ dugsi (depending on what day it is) in the morning, go home, eat, memorise quran (1/2 pg or 1 pg was the requirement for each afternoon), homework, house chores, sleep. Next day same shit. the only time we got electronics or free time was sunday after dugsi.
2- our school had a portal where they showed our grades. All adults had an access to our portal. anything below a grade "B" wasn't allowed. If you scored less. No going out, no freetime. If you didn't pass your dugsi assignment same punishment.
2- No one was allowed to leave home unless they had a reason. The reason had to be productive like school, Dugsi, masaajid, tutoring, or gym. Going out with friends wasn't allowed unless you specified what friends and what location you're going to. If it wasn't a special occasion (like wedding, graduation, baby shower...etc), most likely my mother/ aunts would say no to go out with friends. You can't just put on your shoes and say "Hooyo I'm going out with habal habal." We also couldn't go to the mall with friends, potential straying/ haram. we could go out to eat tho, but all friends had to be of the same gender. opposite gender friends weren't allowed.
3- If you do go out there were conditions:
> Location on phone MUST be on at all time and SHARED every 30 min
> You cannot go to a different location you didn't ask permission from hooyo before hand.
> you must go where you said you were going, no where else, and come straight back.
> You must be back by the time you said you would be back, not a min later
> If by qadarul allah, that snow or other things that are outside of your control causes you to be late. You must send a new location and facetime to show you're on your way home.
> You absolutely cannot interact with the opposite gender. (my mother/ aunts would disallows to go to places where gender mixing and potential haram can take place, like parties. If it was a wedding, it must have separate sections.
> If you didn't get home on time and didn't notified you were gonna be late, You will never be able to go out with friends again (some of my siblings/ cousins has this privilege taken away from them until they hit collage, adults in my fam were serious about this one)
4- No electronics
> Not allowed to have social media
> Didn't get phones until collage, it we needed to do electonical school work there was a computer at home to get that shit done. The computer would be against the wall so that everyone can see what you're doing.
This was how we were raise both the males and females in my mother's and aunt's household. Each day we must have completed our school assignments and show it, Memorized our quran and pass it, study for our exam and be tested (by sibiling or parent) complete our house chores, then go to sleep. We were kept so busy that we rarely had freetime. This started for us from the moment we began to go to school until w graduate highschool. its a bit more lax when we started collage but the "going out rules" still apply. No going out unless is productive. The adults kept all of us on a tight leash. We didn't have no chance of stray and still don't have no chance of straying
That being said those boys went through hell
These guys went through alot.
Im kinda envying ur cousins rn cos I was allowed to do everything I wanted and it literally destroyed me taken so many years to become disciplined and I am still dying inside
