I’m trying to correct my mistake. My baby momma is afraid of her mother that she won’t allow me to see my child

[Grigori Rasputin]

7 years ago I had an encounter with a Xaliimo. A month later I got a phone call from saying “I’m pregnant “. I didn’t disrespect her verbally. I only said “we’ll find out once you give birth”. After she gave birth i saw the baby when the baby was like 1 years old. We were debating if taking the DNA when she stated that “I am sure it’s you but I had a guy 3 months prior to you “. When she said that I dipped. I took down her full name and qabiil for future considerations ofc. About few years ago I had a huge guilty conscience. I remembered a neighbor of hers who knew them and who actually came up to me one day and said “dude this little neighbor child looks identical to you “. I reached out to him to link me with the mother. I wanted to be part of the child’s life. He came back to me with “the grandmother is dead set on you not having any contact”. I left it alone. Out of the blue the mother tracks me down on my social media. Sends me loads of videos and pics. I am certain this is my child. She was even cool that we take a DNA. I also wanted to see the child. However, the mother comes back to me with “I can’t do it. My mother is against it “.

long story short I’m abt to see them this evening.

 

[Macalin M]

fix up. Why’d you care about her mothers feelings? Go see your child. You created that

 

[farax]

Wtf nigga, go see your child. If he’s a boy he will definitely need a father around.

 

[Marcus]

This is the legendary Somali dayuus. Imagine being scared of a mother in law.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

This is the legendary Somali dayuus. Imagine being scared of a mother in law.

she’s not my mother-in-law. This is not confirmed yet. I need to take that DNA.

this evening is the moment of truth. I will take a look at the child very attentively.

I still need to take that DNA

 

[Macalin M]

Madow that’s why he doesn’t want to claim the child. Yaab

Edit: loooooool J turns into madow miyaa? Kkk

 

[Ade]

I have so many questions that I can't handle it but first were you married or not ?? and does your family know about the baby ?? You can probably not forgot a whole child and eliminated it from your life right ??

 

[Ade]

How old is the child now and whose last name has it ?? Tell us how it went later because I'm in the stars and wondering

 

[TekNiKo]

Run as far as away as you can wecel.asxaan maleh.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I have so many questions that I can't handle it but first were you married or not ?? and does your family know about the baby ?? You can probably not forgot a whole child and eliminated it from your life right ??

I was not married at the time. I was a loose cannon at the time. I use to wage a war of liberation of xaliimos from the dreaded madoows.

now I see that I turned into a Madoow myself with a baby momma

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Run as far as away as you can wecel.asxaan maleh.

that’s potentially my child you talking abt

 

[Ade]

I was not married at the time. I was a loose cannon at the time. I use to wage a war of liberation of xaliimos from the dreaded madoows.

now I see that I turned into a Madoow myself with a baby momma

Do you believe that you can be reunited with the girl ????

 

[Calaf]

Sxb, it is a tough point.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Do you believe that you can be reunited with the girl ????

which girl?

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Sxb, it is a tough point.

I’m trying to redeem myself

each one of us struggles with an addiction

my addiction has been and is sex

 

[Sophisticate]

The timelines appear to make sense. When we first met you on somnet you were speaking incoherently about some 'liberation struggle'.


SJWs weren't a thing at the time so we didn't know what you were talking about. We thought you were a pacifist on a hunger strike but it turns out your form of protest was philandering.

It's all starting to make sense.

 

[Calaf]

I’m trying to redeem myself

each one of us struggles with an addiction

my addiction has been and is sex

True true. Resolving gonna be tough, but worth it

 

[Yukon_Niner]

The timelines appear to make sense. When we first met you on somnet you were speaking incoherently about some 'liberation struggle'.


SJWs weren't a thing at the time so we didn't know what you were talking about. We thought you were a pacifist on a hunger strike but it turns out your form of protest was philandering.

It's all starting to make sense.

It's making sense but I don't like it

 

[Jaydaan]

I was not married at the time. I was a loose cannon at the time. I use to wage a war of liberation of xaliimos from the dreaded madoows.

now I see that I turned into a Madoow myself with a baby momma

looool if thats your child. How would you feel somalis calling it wacal?

 

[Sophisticate]

It's making sense but I don't like it

No doubt that the OP has engaged in self-destructive behavior. Though I don't approve (and he knows my stance) I think he needs to see a mental health professional about that or attend those AA meetings. Perhaps both.