I saw failure and degeneracy everywhere I looked When I keenly observed the Somali community in Toronto. The majority of the youth are using drugs, jobless and living in public housing. A few countable number has achieved a bit of success in this country but the majority are failures all across Canada. I at first wanted to get with an ethnic from Toronto but was discouraged by what I saw here. Then I wanted to build with cadaan but again saw what my cousins are upto and how they turned out. I have finally decided to find a partner from my home region in my ancestral lands after being disappointed by the options here in the West. I’m looking forward to going back home for a partner now. My relatives have already found a beautiful Ogaden woman for me and we are currently getting to know each other. She will give me cagdheer sons inshallah. I’m putting down a mehr and nikkah cost when I’m down there for holiday this year. It will make my transition to life in Africa easier since she is from there. Many educated ethnic sons are going home for proper wives. I am not the only one and many more will follow. I just wanted to post my story here to let you all fellow ethnic men know there are other options if you don’t fancy what’s in your backyard.