I can’t trust Somalis who marry non Somali.

[MadMullah99]

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

 

[Shmurda]

Really couldn't care less I judge people based off of my experiences I have with them not off of the decisions they make for themselves

 

[Invader]

If they are proud Somalis and are Muslim then I'm okay with it.

 

[MadMullah99]

Really couldn't care less I judge people based off of my experiences I have with them not off of the decisions they make for themselves

Ok great, So that means you would you hang with an atheist, who also happens to be gay and wears clothing of the opposite gender.

Shmurda that is ok right? Your an angel!

 

[Ghandi23]

You're on the money. Women who marry out will never produce a Somali child throughout their lineage and a man who marries out has no real excuse. Our women are beautiful and educated. Both shouldn't be trusted.

Keep the gene-pool pure or gtfo.

 

[x z]

why do somalis care so much about who strangers marry? some of you need to stop focusing on interracial marriages so much when it makes up a minority of the somali lived experience. plus it screasm insecurity to me too. as the interracial couple, you think they care what outsiders think? does it pay their rent? think about more productive things please, and if your trust is solely based on who someone dates/marries, then your trust isnt worth much either. both my elder siblings are married, and one is married to anohter somali, one a non somali, but i see their marriages as equal and nothing out of the blue, as they're united as western muslims mainly. the quran has no mention of ethnicity, so drooling on about it is un muslim like.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

I'm a Somali guy with a White Albanian muslim girlfriend aka future wifey. My future kids will be Somali as Somali lineage is paternal and they'll be muslim.

I Think you're overreacting

 

[Shmurda]

Ok great, So that means you would you hang with an atheist, who also happens to be gay and wears clothing of the opposite gender.

Shmurda that is ok right? Your an angel!

No because I wouldn't have anything in common with someone like that and I doubt I'd have any good experiences with them also that's completely different from the original question you first asked if I'd be friends with someone that married an ajnabi now ur talking about crossdressing atheist gay

 

[x z]

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

bold assumptions using 0 backed evidence. if anything, the mixed child usually follows the path of one of the parents, this is like 90% of the case, and if the child is instilled with somalinimo and their somali mom or dad is actually present, they're more likely to marry a somali. nearly every mixed somali i know has intentions of marrying somali, because most mixed somalis identify more with somali, hang around with somalis and then end up with a somali guy/girl by association. there are way more examples of somali mixed people identifying eith ther somali mix, rather than their non-somali mix, especially if the area is london/toronto/somali US areas. In fact, this lockdown one of my high school friends whose half somali and sudani was due to get married to some reer xamar dude.

 

[x z]

I'm a Somali guy with a White Albanian muslim girlfriend aka future wifey. My future kids will be Somali as Somali lineage is paternal and they'll be muslim.

I Think you're overreacting

your kids will be half somali if the genders of their parents was swapped anyway. somali dudes talking about fathers passing down their somalinimo should have had that conversation with virtually every somali man who had a kid with an ajnabi, seeing as most somali dads with mixed kids are deadbeat. its all good and well saying all this somali tribal culture of passing down somalinimo through the dad, but lets get real, most somalis who are mixed and lost in identity is due to a somali dad who left or wasnt present or married a somali later on, leaving their kid both not looking or feeling somali, whereas somali moms with mixed kids always stay and hence teach their kids somalinimo. you legit cannute refute that point

 

[المهندس]

your kids will be half somali if the genders of their parents was swapped anyway. somali dudes talking about fathers passing down their somalinimo should have had that conversation with virtually every somali man who had a kid with an ajnabi, seeing as most somali dads with mixed kids are deadbeat. its all good and well saying all this somali tribal culture of passing down somalinimo through the dad, but lets get real, most somalis who are mixed and lost in identity is due to a somali dad who left or wasnt present or married a somali later on, leaving their kid both not looking or feeling somali, whereas somali moms with mixed kids always stay and hence teach their kids somalinimo. you legit cannute refute that point

Are you @Halimak ??

 

[Mozart]

your kids will be half somali if the genders of their parents was swapped anyway. somali dudes talking about fathers passing down their somalinimo should have had that conversation with virtually every somali man who had a kid with an ajnabi, seeing as most somali dads with mixed kids are deadbeat. its all good and well saying all this somali tribal culture of passing down somalinimo through the dad, but lets get real, most somalis who are mixed and lost in identity is due to a somali dad who left or wasnt present or married a somali later on, leaving their kid both not looking or feeling somali, whereas somali moms with mixed kids always stay and hence teach their kids somalinimo. you legit cannute refute that point

Your rants on this topic are very passionate. Are you letting the fkd uncles get to you ?

 

[Qali]

Your rants on this topic are very passionate. Are you letting the fkd uncles get to you ?

I like what I’m hearing

 

[Qali]

Tbh, I don’t really care. I’m not a “nationalist”.

 

[dr.leorio]

Marry who you want. If you like them and they're Muslim, who cares.

Life is incredibly short and since we're living in the end times it won't really matter at the end. During the day of judgement when we're naked, frightened, and drowning in our own sweat none of this will matter to you.

P.S. Men pass down the lineages. So if I choose to marry out, my kids will still be 100% Somali

 

[x z]

Your rants on this topic are very passionate. Are you letting the fkd uncles get to you ?

not sure what you mean walaal

 

[Shmurda]

not sure what you mean walaal

He's saying you debate with people the same way uncle's debate politics with each other in cafes

 

[x z]

Marry who you want. If you like them and they're Muslim, who cares.

Life is incredibly short and since we're living in the end times it won't really matter at the end. During the day of judgement when we're naked, frightened, and drowning in our own sweat none of this will matter to you.

P.S. Men pass down the lineages. So if I choose to marry out, my kids will still be 100% Somali

if you choose to STAY in your kids life, they will identify and be Somali. Regardless of Gender this is facts and you cant argue this. If you leave, they will identify with the other mix. Prime Example is miss maya jama, you think she'd be a Gaal who cant speak somali and only dates non-somalis if her mother was Somali?

 

[Ras]

Keep the gene-pool pure or gtfo.

We need to diversify slightly before we start all looking like Habsburg royalty.

Let's not generalize to all those who marry out. Have close friends that are half but fully in tune with the culture.

It all depends on how involved the father is in their kids lives.

 

[x z]

He's saying you debate with people the same way uncle's debate politics with each other in cafes

responding with my thoughts is not debating, im putting my opinions out there for people to consume, its not my fault i write a lot, too much for some who start sweating after reading more than 2 lines. word count does not correlate with passion, i can right a whole page and forget what i was talking about an hour later