If a street interview were conducted in Somalia, asking people their opinions on marital x**gis, what do you think their responses would be?
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The fact that this Mexican nigga has been on here since 2019 is crazy.
Many of us live in the first world and people here think itβs fine to do. So Iβm not shocked that a third world country believes itβs fine. Hell is hot for everyone who think itβs fine. I donβt understand how you can do it at all? Is she not a human to you?? Canβt wait for their demise.
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This reminds me of my mom. Her mother said a woman isnt worth anything and tht her sons would be the ones taking care of her. Yet tht didnt happen..my mothers the only 1 who does and still she isnt respected by her. Its some sad ish.
Gabar aan qabo sidan u xoogi kara? What would be the point? Your wife who is halal for you whenever, why would you feel the need to force yourself on someone who you have easy access to?
Most men If their wife is upset or angry with them and tries to withhold the goodies, they would just get angry and keep it moving and wait until she calms down. If things are so bad and she doesn't want to continue the marriage, then in Somali divorce isn't frowned up and she can easily get a divorce.
I'm not saying it can't happen, but its rare and culturally it's an alien concept to us because once the maher is done the wife is halaal to the husband, and so even the wife accepts that her husband has a right to have relations with her. Can you imagine the reaction in Somalia when the wife and husband's family try to do reconciliation, and the wife says ninkeyga wuu ii xoogay?
How would you even prove marital rape in court?
Most men If their wife is upset or angry with them and tries to withhold the goodies, they would just get angry and keep it moving and wait until she calms down. If things are so bad and she doesn't want to continue the marriage, then in Somali divorce isn't frowned up and she can easily get a divorce.
I'm not saying it can't happen, but its rare and culturally it's an alien concept to us because once the maher is done the wife is halaal to the husband, and so even the wife accepts that her husband has a right to have relations with her. Can you imagine the reaction in Somalia when the wife and husband's family try to do reconciliation, and the wife says ninkeyga wuu ii xoogay?
How would you even prove marital rape in court?
how tf is that funny you sick bastard i hope you get raped inshallahGabar aan qabo sidan u xoogi kara? What would be the point? Your wife who is halal for you whenever, why would you feel the need to force yourself on someone who you have easy access to?
Most men If their wife is upset or angry with them and tries to withhold the goodies, they would just get angry and keep it moving and wait until she calms down. If things are so bad and she doesn't want to continue the marriage, then in Somali divorce isn't frowned up and she can easily get a divorce.
I'm not saying it can't happen, but its rare and culturally it's an alien concept to us because once the maher is done the wife is halaal to the husband, and so even the wife accepts that her husband has a right to have relations with her. Can you imagine the reaction in Somalia when the wife and husband's family try to do reconciliation, and the wife says ninkeyga wuu ii xoogay?
How would you even prove marital rape in court?
@Admin please delete this i thought too high of these monkeys
Where have they talked about it?
Forced marriages is not very common in traditional Somali culture, so there any really an element of forced aspect behind Somali relationships. Women usually are free to pick their partners and in the past they would go distances to find suitors if that may be.
Any type of rape as researchers have seen is seen as shameful and people osctracised for it. It happens less outside of conflict/displacement zones
This is why you don't see much reporting of it happening, because in Somali households women have greater autonomy.
'Xoogikara' or whatever that troll poters on this forum desribe, it's not an attitude Somalis actually share or familiar with.
I would say that if you interviewed any group in East Africa, Ethiopians would be more likely to not see a problem with it
It's because in traditional Ethiopian culture they abduct women to force them into marriage and rape and its prevalent amongst 62% nationally.
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Ive seen the somalis in somalia talk about it on youtube videos and tiktok. One lady farxiya talked about marital rape and males and females attacked her saying it doesnt exist. Thts how i know wht their opinion is.
Idk wht planet u live on. First i didnt talk about forced marriage which also does happen but i talked about their belief on marital rape. Somalia does not believe it exists. This is a fact. Idk if ur trying to make things sound better or u just dont know somali culture. Again ur talking about rape; they believe rape can only happen to a woman/girl.who is NOT married to the rapist. Meaning the man who rapes her cant be her husband. Rape where a husband does it to his wife does not exist to them. This was a main topic.2 years ago cuz this lady fatxiya absie brought it up.
Now go read the comments if u can read somali.
I watched that video. It's someone with an extreme and radical interpretation of Islam
People are correcting him on it as well: 'Qalad waaye ninkaaga inuu ku qasbo diintana ma ogolo..shiiqan waa iska hadlay''
Not only does the religion not allow it but i was talking Somali traditional culture and those attitudes or beliefs is not really shared.
Still shocking to hear. Fatixya is doing a good job to sus these people out and make it clear to them that , this should never be allowed.
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If a street interview were conducted in Somalia, asking people their opinions on marital x**gis, what do you think their responses would be?
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