If a street interview were conducted in Somalia, asking people their opinions on marital x**gis, what do you think their responses would be?

Many of us live in the first world and people here think it’s fine to do. So I’m not shocked that a third world country believes it’s fine. Hell is hot for everyone who think it’s fine. I don’t understand how you can do it at all? Is she not a human to you?? Can’t wait for their demise.
 
Gabar aan qabo sidan u xoogi kara? What would be the point? Your wife who is halal for you whenever, why would you feel the need to force yourself on someone who you have easy access to?

Most men If their wife is upset or angry with them and tries to withhold the goodies, they would just get angry and keep it moving and wait until she calms down. If things are so bad and she doesn't want to continue the marriage, then in Somali divorce isn't frowned up and she can easily get a divorce.

I'm not saying it can't happen, but its rare and culturally it's an alien concept to us because once the maher is done the wife is halaal to the husband, and so even the wife accepts that her husband has a right to have relations with her. Can you imagine the reaction in Somalia when the wife and husband's family try to do reconciliation, and the wife says ninkeyga wuu ii xoogay? :chrisfreshhah:

How would you even prove marital rape in court?
 
Gabar aan qabo sidan u xoogi kara? What would be the point? Your wife who is halal for you whenever, why would you feel the need to force yourself on someone who you have easy access to?

Most men If their wife is upset or angry with them and tries to withhold the goodies, they would just get angry and keep it moving and wait until she calms down. If things are so bad and she doesn't want to continue the marriage, then in Somali divorce isn't frowned up and she can easily get a divorce.

I'm not saying it can't happen, but its rare and culturally it's an alien concept to us because once the maher is done the wife is halaal to the husband, and so even the wife accepts that her husband has a right to have relations with her. Can you imagine the reaction in Somalia when the wife and husband's family try to do reconciliation, and the wife says ninkeyga wuu ii xoogay? :chrisfreshhah:

How would you even prove marital rape in court?
how tf is that funny you sick bastard i hope you get raped inshallah
 
Theyve talked about it and it doesnt exist to them. They think its completly fine to be forced while married.
Where have they talked about it?

Forced marriages is not very common in traditional Somali culture, so there any really an element of forced aspect behind Somali relationships. Women usually are free to pick their partners and in the past they would go distances to find suitors if that may be.

Any type of rape as researchers have seen is seen as shameful and people osctracised for it. It happens less outside of conflict/displacement zones
. Rape brings shame and stigma to the families involved, members of which may also be ostracised.
This is why you don't see much reporting of it happening, because in Somali households women have greater autonomy.

'Xoogikara' or whatever that troll poters on this forum desribe, it's not an attitude Somalis actually share or familiar with.

I would say that if you interviewed any group in East Africa, Ethiopians would be more likely to not see a problem with it
Studies have shown that the prevalence of marital rape is high in Ethiopia.

It's because in traditional Ethiopian culture they abduct women to force them into marriage and rape and its prevalent amongst 62% nationally.
 
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Where have they talked about it?

Forced marriages is not very common in traditional Somali culture, so there any really an element of forced aspect behind Somali relationships.

Any type of rape as researchrers have seen is seen as shameful and people osctracised for it. It happens less outside of conflict/displacement zones


This is why you don't see much reporting of it happening, because in Somali households women have greater autonomy.

I would say that if you interviewed any group in East Africa, Ethiopians would be more likely to not see a problem with it


It's because in traditional Ethiopian culture they abduct women and rape for and its prevalent amongst 62% nationally.
Idk wht planet u live on. First i didnt talk about forced marriage which also does happen but i talked about their belief on marital rape. Somalia does not believe it exists. This is a fact. Idk if ur trying to make things sound better or u just dont know somali culture. Again ur talking about rape; they believe rape can only happen to a woman/girl.who is NOT married to the rapist. Meaning the man who rapes her cant be her husband. Rape where a husband does it to his wife does not exist to them. This was a main topic.2 years ago cuz this lady fatxiya absie brought it up.
Now go read the comments if u can read somali.
 
Idk wht planet u live on. First i didnt talk about forced marriage which also does happen but i talked about their belief on marital rape. Somalia does not believe it exists. This is a fact. Idk if ur trying to make things sound better or u just dont know somali culture. Again ur talking about rape; they believe rape can only happen to a woman/girl.who is NOT married to the rapist. Meaning the man who rapes her cant be her husband. Rape where a husband does it to his wife does not exist to them. This was a main topic.2 years ago cuz this lady fatxiya absie brought it up.

I watched that video. It's someone with an extreme and radical interpretation of Islam

People are correcting him on it as well: 'Qalad waaye ninkaaga inuu ku qasbo diintana ma ogolo..shiiqan waa iska hadlay''

Not only does the religion not allow it but i was talking Somali traditional culture and those attitudes or beliefs is not really shared.

Still shocking to hear. Fatixya is doing a good job to sus these people out and make it clear to them that , this should never be allowed.
 
how tf is that funny you sick bastard i hope you get raped inshallah

Don't go to Somalia then. If you ask 99% of the males and females there if marital rape exists they would laugh in your face and think you were crazy.

You guys that have just lived in the west have a big disassociation with the reality back home. In Somalia waxa jira wax macquul iyo wax macquul aheen...and a man raping his wife dhaqan ahaan isn't wax macquul.
 

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If she refuses for no valid reason malaaikta ba habaaraya. No need to physically harm as she already receives millions of nacalad. Just divorce her because she is faciltating zina wal ciyaadubillah.
 
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