Imagine your children becoming a disappointment

[Inactive]

I would be such a disappointment to my parents if they knew what my views were.



But can you imagine bringing children into this world who end up as drug dealers or criminals? Waking up every day for two decades to feed and clothe and shelter them only for them to be disappointments? I'd be so pissed off.

I didn't agree with my parents strict way of raising me then but I now realize being extremely strict on your kids is the way to go. I'd probably be dead or in jail or a high school dropout if my parents gave me even an ounce of freedom. This is the way I will raise my children. Lets hope they don't become the polar opposite of me though and become Salafis. This will only happen if they are converted to the religion. I will make sure they live outside the large urban centres. I became the polar opposite of my parents. But I will be monitoring their YouTube usage just in case. I will be spying on my children if they make an Arab or Pakistani friend.

So how would you feel if your child became a disappointment? Not in how they view things but more on what they achieved in life?

 

[ironclad urchin]

no. it isnt going to be part of the plan

 

[Inactive]

no. it isnt going to be part of the plan

Will you be very strict on them?

 

[ironclad urchin]

Will you be very strict on them?

derek. no.

 

[Queen Carawelo]

I would communicate with all of my children, children who have healthy relationship with their parents cannot or will never disappoint them in any way shape or form.

 

[Khathead]

I will be stricht. I plan to move to a very Danish area when I'm done with school and will start a family. Very Danish areas tends to produce a lot of sinning

 

[John Michael]

My parents were never strict Alhamdulilah they have kalsooni with me and that gave the confidence to make my own decisions.

Children who are repressed or oppressed in one way or another turn out angry and self destructive.