Is becoming a Single mother inevitable?

[Mudug_gyal]

Every woman ik is a single mother. My cousin got married 3 years ago and even she got divorced cus she got cheated on. Even If i had a gun to my head I cant name one somali couple. I even grew in a single mother household including all my direct cousins that live here. Is this a common thing?

 

[wonyluvr]

THESE NIGGAS ARENT LOYAL

 

[wonyluvr]

but I don’t know I’m too young but maybe it is common I shall examine the facts

 

[Mudug_gyal]

but I don’t know I’m too young but maybe it is common I shall examine the facts

Atp i dont mind becoming a nun cus f this shit. Ive lost all hope. Im sticking to my kdramas from now on.

 

[wonyluvr]

Atp i dont mind becoming a nun cus f this shit. Ive lost all hope. Im sticking to my kdramas from now on.

wait you watch kdramas OMG

 

[wonyluvr]

Atp i dont mind becoming a nun cus f this shit. Ive lost all hope. Im sticking to my kdramas from now on.

I starting watching kdramas again I forgot how cringy it can be but I love it

 

[Mudug_gyal]

wait you watch kdramas OMG

Omds ya. Im watching Marry My Husband rn. Last episode was sooo good. Gave my heart palpitations ‍

 

[wonyluvr]

Omds ya. Im watching Marry My Husband rn. Last episode was sooo good. Gave my heart palpitations ‍

I’m mainly watching older stuff it gives me a sense of nostalgia.Anyways who’s that on your pfp she’s pretty.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

I’m mainly watching older stuff it gives me a sense of nostalgia.Anyways who’s that on your pfp she’s pretty.

Some random singer. Dont remember her name lmao.

 

[NidarNidar]

Most of these marriages are usually done in their early 20s, it is guaranteed not to work out, one of the main reasons why I haven't married yet.

Take your time finding the right match, lower your expectations and don't squabble like kids,

 

[wonyluvr]

Some random singer. Dont remember her name lmao.

I think it’s Ugbad Aragsan that’s my guess

 

[Mudug_gyal]

I think it’s Ugbad Aragsan that’s my guess

Ur right

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Most of these marriages are usually done in their early 20s, it is guaranteed not to work out, one of the main reasons why I haven't married yet.

Take your time finding the right match, lower your expectations and don't squabble like kids,

Looking at my sorroundings, I have learnt to not expect much. Knowing me, I’ll become a single mom ik it

 

[Revolutionarry]

Somali society is in total shambles right now. The nuclear household broke apart with the country's total collapse.
Just make sure you find a good man who is compatible with you. Qashin ha guursan.
same goes for the dudes.


I find myself in women's den once again.
didn't read, apologies ladies.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Somali society is in total shambles right now. The nuclear household broke apart with the country's total collapse.
Just make sure you find a good man who is compatible with you. Qashin ha guursan.
same goes for the dudes.


I find myself in women's den once again.
didn't read, apologies ladies.

Me n u against the world baby

 

[wheel]

I'd put it down to multiple factors
I doubt couples spend a lot of time getting to really know eachother and fully assessing eachother as life long mates. 2) Western Somalis also inherit certain dysfunctional aspects of western family life whilst also losing the traditional islamic ones.

 

[Macawisley]

she got divorced cus she got cheated on

How did he marry a second wife in secret?

 

[Mudug_gyal]

How did he marry a second wife in secret?

The thing is he wasnt married to her. He was chatting with the girl for 4 years and married my cousin instead. Then she found out.

 

[Aseer]

Every woman ik is a single mother. My cousin got married 3 years ago and even she got divorced cus she got cheated on. Even If i had a gun to my head I cant name one somali couple. I even grew in a single mother household including all my direct cousins that live here. Is this a common thing?

What country do you live in?

 

[Mudug_gyal]

What country do you live in?