Arguing or having conflicts with family? I know this girl ever since she was 16/17 she’s been kicked out and then begged to come back. Now at 23 she got kicked out the house after arguing with her brother.
The whole family is a mess but every time there’s conflict they’ll throw her out the door in her Dirac and her all her belongings in one laundry basket and kick her out the door. Soon she leaves and then the mom is begging her to come back and apologize to her (10+) year older siblings who still live with her mom no issues. One of her sisters lived in a different state for school when conflict happened and as soon as she heard her other siblings cut contact she just did the same so you know it’s not a coincidence.
The issue now is the sister is so fed up because she warned her family that they can talk things out rather than fighting with one another and if it happened again she’d be going no contact permanently and guess what? When she moved back they acted nice to her and then DID IT AGAIN when she was 23.
To be fair I understand not wanting contact with the siblings because while they did help raise her and took care of her, they were also abusive and will side with each other over her because she has a different dad. So whenever she leaves, they pretty much cut contact and will only talk to her if SHE apologizes.
But what I don’t agree with is cutting contact with her mom even though she said it’s because this time her mom hasn’t contacted her in months. Now I’m trying to talk her out of it but she is determined she has a job mashallah so she didn’t need to stay with family and only did it to appease her mom. Now her company has a job in another state she’s applied for and she’s told me she wants to go to that state and get rid of social media, change her name and go no contact with anyone from her past permanently.
Not sure how to handle this or if it’s a good idea.. need advice!
The whole family is a mess but every time there’s conflict they’ll throw her out the door in her Dirac and her all her belongings in one laundry basket and kick her out the door. Soon she leaves and then the mom is begging her to come back and apologize to her (10+) year older siblings who still live with her mom no issues. One of her sisters lived in a different state for school when conflict happened and as soon as she heard her other siblings cut contact she just did the same so you know it’s not a coincidence.
The issue now is the sister is so fed up because she warned her family that they can talk things out rather than fighting with one another and if it happened again she’d be going no contact permanently and guess what? When she moved back they acted nice to her and then DID IT AGAIN when she was 23.
To be fair I understand not wanting contact with the siblings because while they did help raise her and took care of her, they were also abusive and will side with each other over her because she has a different dad. So whenever she leaves, they pretty much cut contact and will only talk to her if SHE apologizes.
But what I don’t agree with is cutting contact with her mom even though she said it’s because this time her mom hasn’t contacted her in months. Now I’m trying to talk her out of it but she is determined she has a job mashallah so she didn’t need to stay with family and only did it to appease her mom. Now her company has a job in another state she’s applied for and she’s told me she wants to go to that state and get rid of social media, change her name and go no contact with anyone from her past permanently.
Not sure how to handle this or if it’s a good idea.. need advice!
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