Is this normal or am I tripping?

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Gibiin-Udug

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Women making first moves on men. My group of friends and I never ever ever make first moves on men. Even during high school and college days.

I was with my two brothers yesterday. and we went to a restaurant for afur. There were a group women seated in another table next to us. They kept being loud and giggling and would turn around see to if my brothers were looking. They weren't, we were talking amongst ourselves and eating obviously. One chick came to our table and asked me directly which one of my brothers I was with, flabbergasted. I told her to repeat herself. And she asked again. My brother started laughing and clowning her. Wallahi I felt bad for them, I thought us women had dignity and respect, why would you come to men and try to make moves on them. My brother told her to go back to her table and sit down because both of them were not interested. It kept replaying in my mind. How can they think it's okay.


I blame this on feminism.
 
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BebsiBolice

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What's wrong with women taking the first step? I think it's great. More women need to that. You see someone you find interesting than go make a move.
 
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Gibiin-Udug

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Barni said:
What's wrong with women taking the first step? I think it's great. More women need to that. You see someone you find interesting than go make a move.
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A lady never makes the first move. She would come off desperate. :jcoleno:
 
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BebsiBolice

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Meh I think she's brave. Gender roles are pathetic. There's no rule that says women can't make a move. Why should all the pressure be on men? If you find someone attractive and you like them then don't waste anymore time ask them out.
 
yibir

yibir

Reiko said:
Women making first moves on men. My group of friends and I never ever ever make first moves on men. Even during high school and college days.

I was with my two brothers yesterday. and we went to a restaurant for afur. There were a group women seated in another table next to us. They kept being loud and giggling and would turn around see to if my brothers were looking. They weren't, we were talking amongst ourselves and eating obviously. One chick came to our table and asked me directly which one of my brothers I was with, flabbergasted. I told her to repeat herself. And she asked again. My brother started laughing and clowning her. Wallahi I felt bad for them, I thought us women had dignity and respect, why would you come to men and try to make moves on them. My brother told her to go back to her table and sit down because both of them were not interested. It kept replaying in my mind. How can they think it's okay.


I blame this on feminism.
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Why should always us men take the first step? If u like someone just go for it. My ex hit on me and thats how we got together. But still, i agree that women look more "thirsty" when take the first move, but i blame that on society rather then the women.
 
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Bielsa

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Here white women are bold and some make the first move. First time it happened to me was in Hamburg in 2010. I had just gotten out of a hotel in Hamburg and a German woman started chatting to me and flirting with me. She wasted no time and asked for my number.

I was quite impressed tbh.
 
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RoyalSomali

Had recently a bunch of halimos in my house due to wedding so they sleept in our house when one of them jumped into my room and begin a conversation on my bed is that not lack of shame ?
 
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BebsiBolice

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RoyalSomali said:
Had recently a bunch of halimos in my house due to wedding so they sleept in our house when one of them jumped into my room and begin a conversation on my bed is that not lack of shame ?
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Warya no one jumped on your bed. With your rapey tendencies I wouldn't be surprised if you forced someone to your bed.
 
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RoyalSomali

Somali culture is so funny my somali female friend will knock on our house and ask if I have time to get out like white people poor girl my hooyo thinks she is a for doing that
 
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It depends on the situation. Usually it is disrespectful for females to hit on men in front
of their female relatives. A while back I was visiting my cousins while talking to my female
cousin her friend tried to hit on me but I ignored her I was like "b!tch I am talking to family
don't interrupt me" in my mind. So conclusion no it is not normal, I doubt any guy likes
being hit on while with female relatives, that is awkward, your brothers did the right thing.
 
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Mohamud

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Depends to be quite frank. If the woman is 100% convinced she can get with him and there is nothing that can go wrong, I find they are more willing to take the plunge. But it's gotta be a sure thing (that's what my sister said). If the dude is really attractive and socially stable, fat chance.

I personally have no problems whatsoever with a woman approaching me at any capacity. If her interest literally pushes past her intuition to the point where she was to start a convo with you, let it happen.
 
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DiricLover

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Duke of Harshaw said:
It depends on the situation. Usually it is disrespectful for females to hit on men in front
of their female relatives. A while back I was visiting my cousins while talking to my female
cousin her friend tried to hit on me but I ignored her I was like "b!tch I am talking to family
don't interrupt me" in my mind. So conclusion no it is not normal, I doubt any guy likes
being hit on while with female relatives, that is awkward, your brothers did the right thing.
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LOL i was reading through this thread waiting for u to comment. Man getting hit on must be exhausting somaha
 
Bohol

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DiricLover said:
LOL i was reading through this thread waiting for u to comment. Man getting hit on must be exhausting somaha
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You're a big fan of me somaha. I believe there is time and place for shukansi, it is not appropriate for everywhere though. Those
young new western halimos need some lessons 101 etiquette in shukansi.
 
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