Mehr situation

[Desert Flower]

Ladies,

If he's making top coin = top meher
if he's an average joe = average meher
if he is broke, run for the hills.

That's the system.

Stingy man= stingy, miserable lifestyle.


If some of you cannot afford to pay Meher or get married, find a woman who will accept an apple and a handshake. Also get ready to give your daughter away for the same amount.

They want women to ruin their beautiful bodies and even risk their lives birthing big headed babies without paying for it.

Naag nool post!

Uu sheeg! Either pay up or shut up.

 

[Rooble44]

^ Nobody cares if you cannot handle or want a Somali woman. Go marry out and breed out your lineage freely.

"Handle" is a relative term, there's literally nothing special about Somali women. So what am I exactly putting myself through hell for? And as far as breeding out my line, I'm the man and the genetic information and lineage is stored within me, so what do we exactly need Somali women for?

 

[Finesse]

"Handle" is a relative term, there's literally nothing special about Somali women. So what am I exactly putting myself through hell for? And as far as breeding out my line, I'm the man and the genetic information and lineage is stored within me, so what do we exactly need Somali women for?

Again, that's your choice and life.

 

[kickz]

Its not that serious, there's to many people out here to haggle over Mehr prices lol.

 

[Destiny]

You sound broke

 

[Neron]

Don't put words in my mouth, I am anti-ajnabi marriages.

I’m not saying this is you but this is most girls who have married ajnabis or prefer them

Theres also those girls who get married just so they can get a little money and leave their mothers house only to divorce a few months later

High mehr makes sense back in the day because people normally stayed together and got married for the right reasons but it’s totally different now

 

[Finesse]

I’m not saying this is you but this is most girls who have married ajnabis or prefer them

Theres also those girls who get married just so they can get a little money and leave their mothers house only to divorce a few months later

High mehr makes sense back in the day because people normally stayed together and got married for the right reasons but it’s totally different now

Those girls shame the Somali nation, It allows Ajnabis to think they can approach all Somali women as if we all suffer from low self-esteem. Thankfully they are a small minority.

I don't agree with making a man broke but it should be relative to his earnings. At the end of the day, this is the woman who will birth your children and make your house a home. Trying to stiff her is weird and anti-Islamic.

Choose very carefully fellas and do istikharah so you don't end up with the wrong bride.

 

[Nomoregames2019]

If you're a British Muslim man living in the UK then its pretty easy to marry another British Muslim woman for free without paying any sort of mehr.

Here is how you do it. Step by step:

1) You need to have a dramatic sob story to tell so you can get British Muslimahs to feel sorry for your ass. The best sob story that you can make up is to larp as some Jamaican former gangbanger who got locked up in Belmarsh prison and how you converted to Islam whilst being locked up. You can also say how your parents died when you were a toddler and as a result you were put in different orphanages as a child.

2) Get one of.those UK dawah celebrities like Dawah Man and Ali Dawah to interview you. Watch your interview go viral and you will have tons of British Muslimahs dming you on your Instagram account with marriage proposals and how they're willing to pay for the mehr themselves.

 

[Molotoff]

If you're a British Muslim man living in the UK then its pretty easy to marry another British Muslim women for free without paying any sort of mehr.

Here is how you do it. Step by step:

1) You need to have a dramatic sob story to tell so you can get British Muslimahs to feel sorry for your ass. The best sob story that you can make up is to larp as some Jamaican former gangbanger who got locked up in Belmurst prison and converted to Islam whilst being locked up. You can also say how your parents died when you were a toddler and as a result you were put in different orphanages as a child.

2) Get one of.those UK dawah celebrities like Dawah Man and Ali Dawah to interview you. Watch your interview go viral and you will have tons of British Muslimahs dming you on your Instagram with marriage proposals and how they're willing to pay for the mehr themselves.

Kind of hard to larp as a Jamaican man when you have the pinkish hue of a Pole...

 

[Nomoregames2019]

Kind of hard to larp as a Jamaican man when you have the pinkish hue of a Pole...

No problem on that basis you can larp as some white English convert to Islam.

 

[Bashi]

Like some people here were saying, the mehr should be relative to the man's earnings. Just make sure you get a good muslimah girl. You don't wanna end up with a girl who got passed around by the madow dude she found "cute". And one she would probably marry if he asked her, while paying for her mehr too lmao. Like I get it, ask for a high price, it shows you value yourself. But why do some somali girls act like totally miskiin girls when it comes to ajnabis Stand up for yourself in front of ajnabi suitors too. And treat them the same way as somalis.

 

[ReyRey]

Soon bro women will be paying men mehr
4. Women will increase in number and men will decrease in number so much so that fifty women will be looked after by one man.

 

[Juke]

Niggas still paying mehr in 2020 with gender equality and all that

 

[Octavian]

Niggas still paying mehr in 2020 with gender equality and all that

whats gender equality ??

 

[THE SOMALI POLYGLOT]

Paying Mehr in 2020

The only thing I will pay to my fiancee is a symbolic one dollar

 

[jabsveg276]

A woman has the right to ask for what she wants. If you have an issue with that go elsewhere

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Yes, she has the right to request whatever mehr she wants. But she is not an object to buy. The prophet legit advised against excessive mehr

 

[jabsveg276]

Ladies,

If he's making top coin = top meher
if he's an average joe = average meher
if he is broke, run for the hills.

That's the system.

Stingy man= stingy, miserable lifestyle.


If some of you cannot afford to pay Meher or get married, find a woman who will accept an apple and a handshake. Also get ready to give your daughter away for the same amount.

They want women to ruin their beautiful bodies and even risk their lives birthing big headed babies without paying for it.

The mehr should not increase on wether the man can afford more or not. If wealthier men could afford a higher mehr then all woman would chase rich men, they end up as gold diggers and find themselves in bad marriages. If a man makes 100k, then 5k + a good wedding is enough. Because dont you want to own a house? Own some cars? Go on some trips? The more of the mans money you spend the less luxuries you and youre future partner get to have

 

[Djokovic]

I'm earning £85k a year in North West of England, I have 2 years till my mortgage is fully paid off and have £60k in my savings account. And I still wouldn't pay more than £2k for mehr. As much as I love my Somali women, their vagina isn't made of anything special. I would rather go to Bosnia/Chechnya and get a loyal, hardworking and subservient wife and pay a fraction of what these Somali girls are asking for. My cousin married a Bosnian woman and she happily relocated to Mogadishu with him, God has blessed them with 8 beautiful children. She learnt the language, put in immense effort to integrate into the Somali society, all in mere 14 years. Somali girls are fucking themselves up, and Somali men are starting to look elsewhere.

Is there halal mortgage ???

 

[jabsveg276]

In Somali culture, the meher is paid upon divorce, not upfront. It's treated like a divorce settlement. I don't get how some men are crying over a few months salary. It makes me wonder what kind of jobs you guys have.

The prophet(pbuh) paid 1k in mehr, would you accept 1k as sunah? If not that says a lot about you

 

[jabsveg276]

Naag nool post!

Uu sheeg! Either pay up or shut up.

I’m really getting gold digger vibes from you, you’re basing a mans worth on his money. Not once did you mention a mans value about anything else