My aabo want me to have an "Entanglement"

[Basra]

I just had to use the word entanglement

Jokes aside, my parents have instilled in us to not date while in school, at least not until we get our bachelors. So I've been faithfully curving abdis/men to heed their advice.

Earlier this year, I decided a career in the health field is not for me and switch to Environmental Biology. My aabo doesn't approve of my decision. He says it is dangerous for a girl do a job that requires travelling away from home for weeks/months and working in remote areas (I want to specialize in wildlife conservation inshAllah). I understand his concern but this is my passion and I am willing to take that risk. I am also positive he'll come around once he sees I am doing a great job.

Anyway, the other day he tells me he gave his friend's son my phone number and wants me to get to know him. I reminded him I have two years to finish my undergrad but he insists I "just talk to the guy and 2years is nothing." Personally, I think he is panicking because he sees my career decision as a reflection of me losing my somali dhaqan.

What should I do?

 

[Abdisamad]

Who is she?

That account is newish.

She is not new sxb.

 

[Hodan from HR]

How do you expect to get married, if you’re not willing to have a phone call with a potential suitor

The issue is not talking to a potential suitor.
My aabo is only bringing up this marriage talk because he thinks I am throwing my life away by going into "a career not suitable for a gabar" his words.

Before that it was, do not entertain men until you finish school

 

[Abdisamad]

The issue is not talking to a potential suitor.
My aabo is only bringing up this marriage talk because he thinks I am throwing my life away by going into "a career not suitable for a gabar" his words.

Before that it was, do not entertainen until you finish school

I can come and liberate you, and travel the world together

 

[abdullah233]

I can come and liberate you, and travel the world together

My nigga keep shooting your shot

 

[Abdisamad]

My nigga keep shooting your shot

Tameable Qumayo is my first sspot romance sxb.. You wasn't around here when we used to shukansi, playing cat & mouse games.. We could've had grand children if certain individual called the good didn't ruin it for me

 

[Hodan from HR]

My nigga keep shooting your shot

Should we spark some joy in this man's life today?

 

[abdullah233]

Tameable Qumayo is my first sspot romance sxb.. You wasn't around here when we used to shukansi, playing cat & mouse games.. We could've had grand children if certain individual called the good didn't ruin it for me

@Helios Why did you cockblock him . @Sophisticate Abdismad was doing shukansi with you

 

[Abdisamad]

@Helios Why did you cockblock him

So you was around at that time

 

[abdullah233]

So you was around at that time

No comment

 

[Hodan from HR]

@The Smooth-Operator, Start saving up for the lastest camping van model as my meher. 2022 we finna turn up, I'll take you on a road trip around Canada

 

[abdullah233]

@The Smooth-Operator, Start saving up for the lastest camping van model as my meher. 2022 we finna turn up, I'll take you on a road trip around Canada

@Desert Flower Make a move hodan is out here finessing you

 

[Desert Flower]

@Desert Flower Make a move hodan is out here finessing you

I’ve given her my blessing.

 

[Abdisamad]

@The Smooth-Operator, Start saving up for the lastest camping van model as my meher. 2022 we finna turn up, I'll take you on a road trip around Canada

Sounds expensive.. Let me ask my manager for extra shift

 

[abdullah233]

I’ve given her my blessing.

@Desert Flower

 

[Abdisamad]

I’ve given her my blessing.

Xasid

 

[Abdisamad]

@abdullah233

You younger libaax just want to take over the hunting ground by pushing the older libaax from the edge so ma ahan.. You keep taking lowkey shots at me

 

[abdullah233]

@abdullah233

You younger libaax just want to take over the hunting ground by pushing the older libaax from edge so ma ahan.. You keep taking lowkey shots at me

It's the numbers game saxiib

 

[Desert Flower]

The issue is not talking to a potential suitor.
My aabo is only bringing up this marriage talk because he thinks I am throwing my life away by going into "a career not suitable for a gabar" his words.

Before that it was, do not entertain men until you finish school

Nope. Entertain the good ones. It gets harder after graduation.

I didn’t speak to guys when I was in undergrad. I kinda regret it now. To be fair though, I was more “religious” back then and was heavily involved with the MSA. If you’re seen with a guy they would start talking. I made up for it by being more social after university. That + I’m honestly better looking now.
Anyways sis, if you see a good brother while in school, it wouldn’t hurt to talk to him.

 

[Desert Flower]

@Hodan from HR check my edit.