I think Queen Arawelo isn’t a feminist hero, but a villain protagonist like Light from Death Note. The message of the folktale is a cautionary tale about toxic masculinity & femininity . Arawelo starts out as an anti hero due to her husband believed women should be restrict themselves to merely domestic duties about the house and leave everything else to men. In response, Arawelo demanded that all women across the land abandon their womanly role in society. She becomes the same sexist oppressor as her husband. Her castrating the male population is her dehumanizing men as objects only valued for their strength in the vein as how Red pill men/manosphere only values women for sex/child rearing. Arawelo being killed by her grandson symbolizes the damage gender wars are to a society/family. Having different roles or strengths & weakness doesn’t mean that either gender is better than each other.