My Somali Friend's Aabo hit on me

[Angela Davis]

Should I tell her?

 

[TSP]

Don't ruin your friendship. She will side with her father

 

[Kalshaale]

What if your mother has an affair with your female friend, whom her father has hit on you?

 

[Angela Davis]

I know but I feel like everyone has the right to know if their dad is a perv. I feel so gross.

Don't ruin your friendship. She will side with her father

 

[Angela Davis]

lol WHAT?? SO confused. My mom wouldn't have an affair. My parents are too in love it's sickening.

What if your mother has an affair with your female friend, whom her father has hit on you?

 

[AceofSom]

You should give him a BJ see if he like it, then you can see if hes a perv.

 

[TSP]

I know but I feel like everyone has the right to know if their dad is a perv. I feel so gross.

How old is he?

 

[Kalshaale]

lol WHAT?? SO confused. My mom wouldn't have an affair. My parents are too in love it's sickening.

Never say never. The likelihood your mother and your female friend are having relationship is far more possible now that your female friend's dad has begun to hit on you.

 

[cantspeak]

Why were you alone with him long enough for him to try and flirt with you?


You can't control the fact there are pervs out there but what you can control is who you are alone with.

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

what is perv about hitting on a girl, are you young or something?

 

[Cukaash]

Allah turuufa badanaa taney.

You can add him to your long rap sheet.

 

[Inactive]

Older Somali abos who go to shisha spots or Somali parties/events from what I have observed do this all the time. The majority of Somali girls have experienced this directly or indirectly and I can only imagine that none of them have told their friend if it was their dad of all people who did it and for good reason.

Don't tell her anything if you don't want to lose her as a friend.

 

[RedStar]

Tough scenario, but unfortunately if you don't have any evidence, your friend won't believe you.

Don't blame her for siding with her dad if you tell her. You'd do the same thing if you had to choose between your dad or your friend's word.

 

[Angela Davis]

You know that sounds like a damn good idea. Why haven't I thought about that?

You should give him a BJ see if he like it, then you can see if hes a perv.

 

[Assata]

No you have to tell her she deserves to know that her aabo is a perv. If she tries to say you're lying than drop her and keep it pushing she didn't deserve your friendship anyways.

 

[Angela Davis]

Late 40's or early 50s. Why does his age matter?

How old is he?

 

[Angela Davis]

Ok so now it's my fault that this grown ass disgusting balding old man that has a daughter my age has the audacity to think he can hit on me? Why am i not surprised?

Why were you alone with him long enough for him to try and flirt with you?


You can't control the fact there are pervs out there but what you can control is who you are alone with.

 

[MY.Brawler]

Late 40's or early 50s. Why does his age matter?

Does he have A bidaar

 

[Angela Davis]

I'm his daughters age that is what is perverted.

what is perv about hitting on a girl, are you young or something?

 

[TSP]

Late 40's or early 50s. Why does his age matter?

I thought he was 60 + and didnt give a shit. To me its sounds like he wants a second wife