Need serious advice

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

So my family wants me to live a burgoise life aka working seven days a week to accept me again

but I’m not able to achieve that without their help

what should a do

 

[Basra]

You can do it! Start work only weekend first.

 

[Geelraac]

Step by step bro

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

You can do it! Start work only weekend first.

Ain’t nobody employing my goofy ass

 

[Basra]

Ain’t nobody employing my goofy ass

Well if u stopped drinking, everybody will hire YOU

 

[Boogie]

Ain’t nobody employing my goofy ass

Not with that attitude

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Well if u stopped drinking, everybody will hire YOU

I will cut it down even more

 

[Boogie]

I will cut it down even more

Yea keep taking baby steps to improve yourself bro and also listen to quran recitation if u feel stressed

 

[486th President]

Work nine to five but not your entire life get the money then invest and what now saaxiib life’s short innit

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Accept you again? What happened between you lot?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Accept you again? What happened between you lot?

You could say that ngl

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

First and foremost, turn to Allah swt and ask for his acceptance. Secondly maybe your family are tired of your drinking habits,put down the alcohol and act like the Muslim person you were meant to be. I actually feel sorry for your family, I can't imagine dealing with an alcoholic son who won't try to achieve any goals. I'm sorry but this had to be said.
Good luck.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

First and foremost, turn to Allah swt and ask for his acceptance. Secondly maybe your family are tired of your drinking habits,put down the alcohol and act like the Muslim person you were meant to be. I actually feel sorry for your family, I can't imagine dealing with an alcoholic son who won't try to achieve any goals. I'm sorry but this had to be said.
Good luck.

I have goals and I make money
I just don’t work in employment
Also alcoholic is too harsh I only drink once a week on a weekend

 

[Chun Li]

Do you have any siblings?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Do you have any siblings?

Yes all be studying

 

[Chun Li]

Yes all be studying

Why don’t they try to help mend your relationship with your parents? Are they also ignoring you?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Why don’t they try to help mend your relationship with your parents? Are they also ignoring you?

They say thats my own problem

 

[Chun Li]

They say thats my own problem

You have some fake siblings because they’re supposed to be there for you, not ditch you if you’re struggling with something.
Here’s my advice to you:

1) Have one job to hold on to. Once you’re used to doing this job, get another job or become a contractor, even better be self employed. Multiple streams of income will help you become financially independent & stable.

2) You could study on the side to get a diploma. It’s not too late to skip out on earning a qualification.

3) Quit spending your money on frivolous things. You don’t need to buy junk food almost everyday, when you could cook your own healthy meals (fresh & less expensive). Spend less on alcohol or only have it as a treat. For example, you could have a big bottle & stretch it out for as long as you can.