"Nice guys finish last"

[pirater]

"Nice guys finish last". What complete Bs. You do finish last. No ones saying you don't. why is this bs? No one wants to get with someone who's constantly complaining about being how no one wants to be with them. You guys never stop complaining. It's not that yall aren't nice. You never shut up about being lonely. People don't want desperate guys. So faaraxs who are "nice". Shut up. It's very embarrassing. Stop with this "nice" bs and start complaining less. These are my two cents on these people

 

[exposedmeat]

*balanced as everything should be*

Farah's balance your attitude toward a woman (advice from fellow Abdi)

 

[KingSomali999]

nice guys don’t finish last. They don’t even finish the race.

A lot of these so called “nice” guys are tryna nice their way into some watery gutz.
Plus, girls like a challenge so if u keep folding on her shiit tests n you don’t stand firm on ur values and believes, she’ll see u as weak

 

[pirater]

nice guys don’t finish last. They don’t even finish the race.

A lot of these so called “nice” guys are tryna nice their way into some watery gutz.
Plus, girls like a challenge so if u keep folding on her shiit tests n you don’t stand firm on ur values and believes, she’ll see u as weak

what kind of girl wants someone who is desperate for some pussy

 

[KingSomali999]

what kind of girl wants someone who is desperate for some pussy

what kind of girl want a guy who doesn’t stand up for himself? in hopes of getting some pussy? yaap, If he doesn’t stand up for himself what makes u think he’ll stand up for u??? Simps don’t clock any of that, I don’t really blame them at the same time, we’re taught to be nice to girls from a young age and the nicer u are, the more she’ll be in love with you.

 

[Sophisticate]

I usually don't hear about guys complaining about being 'nice' unless they are putting on an act and then feel shafted because they don't get what they want.

 

[HiraanBorn]

nice guys don’t finish last. They don’t even finish the race.

A lot of these so called “nice” guys are tryna nice their way into some watery gutz.
Plus, girls like a challenge so if u keep folding on her shiit tests n you don’t stand firm on ur values and believes, she’ll see u as weak

"watery guts"
interesting way of putting it

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I usually don't hear about guys complaining about being 'nice' unless they are putting on an act and then feel shafted because they don't get what they want.

99.99% of "nice guys" are wolves in sheep's clothing, they try to friend their way into intimacy/relationships. Normal guys don't get all butt-hurt and bitter when they don't get their way.

 

[pirater]

guys who complain about girls not wanting them are not nice. if your nice you don't need tot ell everyone and complain in people's ears. We all know you want to venture deep in the bushy swamp. it's clear

 

[Sophisticate]

99.99% of "nice guys" are wolves in sheep's clothing, they try to friend their way into intimacy/relationships. Normal guys don't get all butt-hurt and bitter when they don't get their way.

I mean if one actively identifies as a nice guy it seems suspect. It's best to pay attention to their actions in different contexts.

 

[Angelina]

Lol, why do some men think just because they're nice to a girl, she has to give them a chance? 'Nice' isn't a enough. Someone needs to find you interesting and attractive.

 

[pirater]

Lol, why do some men think just because they're nice to a girl, she has to give them a chance? 'Nice' isn't a enough. Someone needs to find you interesting and attractive.

exactly. and most nice guys are wolves in sheeps clothing. As a guy I know this one guy who always complains about how "nice guys finish last". He's a stupid horny virgin who always complains about how girls only date jackasses.

 

[bluebird]

Lol, why do some men think just because they're nice to a girl, she has to give them a chance? 'Nice' isn't a enough. Someone needs to find you interesting and attractive.

this^

and there is genuine kindness which everyone likes, but then there is the shallow niceness that americans tend to have, and no one is falling for that.

 

[Angelina]

this^

and there is genuine kindness which everyone likes, but then there is the shallow niceness that americans tend to have, and no one is falling for that.

Lol, they think being 'nice' is a personality. Majority of the time, they're not even really nice anyway lool. So i'm even wondering, what the hell is their personality?!

It really reeks of entitlement when you think someone has to like you just because you behave like a decent human. Well what about spark, attraction, sense of humour?

People don't even choose their friendships just based on 'niceness', let alone relationships.

 

[KingSomali999]

Lol, why do some men think just because they're nice to a girl, she has to give them a chance? 'Nice' isn't a enough. Someone needs to find you interesting and attractive.

you heard it boys. Being nice doesn’t matter to these girls. You can be an asshole and get away with it as long as ur genuine about ur feelings.
Y’all some betas wallahi. They think life is like a disney movie

 

[Molotoff]

Just be the exact opposite of what girls say they like and want.

 

[Angelina]

you heard it boys. Being nice doesn’t matter to these girls. You can be an asshole and get away with it as long as ur genuine about ur feelings.
Y’all some betas wallahi. They think life is like a disney movie

Being 'nice' is normal decent behavior. You need to be more than nice. You need to have a personality and the person needs to find you attractive. I never said don't be nice.

Also, only very young and troubled women are into assholes. Women that have been raised well care about akhlaaq and kindness aren't going to tolerate one.

The problem is that most self confessed 'nice' guys aren't really nice. They're fake and lack prinicples.

Lol, its amazing how you misunderstood my argument.

 

[Angelina]

Just be the exact opposite of what girls say they like and want.

 

[bluebird]

Lol, they think being 'nice' is a personality. Majority of the time, they're not even really nice anyway lool. So i'm even wondering, what the hell is their personality?!

It really reeks of entitlement when you think someone has to like you just because you behave like a decent human. Well what about spark, attraction, sense of humour?

People don't even choose their friendships just based on 'niceness', let alone relationships.

and some people don't even know what nice is. there was a guy at work who thought he was being nice by telling me to cheer up and smile every day. lol.

what they're mistaking for are empathy, generosity, compassion- those are traits anyone women/men appreciate

 

[cawaale]

Yeah keep believing nice guys are actors, no wonder the divorce rate and single motherhood in the black community is so high. White/asians girls go for nice guys and they’re marriages last. “Oh I got laid now I’ll suddenly completely change my persona and stop being nice”