Nin gabar la baxsaday

[Ruqiya]

Bari waxaa isla sheekeystay gabar 15 jir ah iyo will ilaa 20 jira ah. Gabadhii iyo wiilkii markay waqti wada sheekeysteen waxay ku heshiiyeen inay isguursadaan. Heshiiskooda waxaa ka mid ahaa inay isla baxsadaan sababtoo ah wiilka xoolo iyo lacag toona muu heysan.

Wiilkii baa gabadhii ku yidhi habeenkii markay 12:00 AM tahay is diyaari markaas baxsanaynaa. Gabadhuna way ka yashay waxay tiri ima waynaysid. 12:00 habeenimo markay aheed buu yimi wuuna la baxsaday. Gabadha aad bay kugu faraxday oo waxay is leedahay ninkii aad jeceleed baad cawa heshay lakiin balaayo baa ka raacday.
Nin musiiba ah buu ahaa. Intuu gabadha asagu guursan lahaa Waxuu u geeyay nin 50 jir ah. Ninkii 50 jirka ahaa baa gabadhii loo xirxiray oo qasab ku xoogay. 2 weeks buu kufsanayay, dilayay, wax kastoo doonan ku sameynaya.
Waxay isku day'day inay ka carartoo marar badan lakiin markasta waa lasoo qabanayay. Calaa kuli xaal, 2 weeks markay dhibkaas ku jirtay waxay fursad u heshay inay baxsato.

Sheekadaan waxaa laga qadanayaa inay waalidku caruurtooda ka war hayaan siiba gabadhaha.
~This is a true story~.

 

[Figo]

Where did this happen?

 

[Mercury]

If its true it's a sad story indeed but it's always important to have your parents blessing when you want to marry

 

[angrycat]

I got the jist of the story, but i feel like the dialect is way different to what I'm used to, so a lot of words were newer to me.

What does baxsaday mean? Eloped?

 

[Ruqiya]

Where did this happen?

Miyiga somalia.

 

[Ruqiya]

I got the jist of the story, but i feel like the dialect is way different to what I'm used to, so a lot of words were newer to me.

What does baxsaday mean? Eloped?

Yes.

 

[Hubble]

Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ileyhi raajicuun. That's not the moral though weli ciyaal bey aheyd. Maskaxda weli uma degin. Parents should lock the doors at night with keys and keep the keys in their room. Teenagers are prone to this behaviour because they don't know the dangers of the world they think its all horror stories and not reality.

 

[Ruqiya]

Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ileyhi raajicuun. That's not the moral though weli ciyaal bey aheyd. Maskaxda weli uma degin. Parents should lock the doors at night with keys and keep the keys in their room. Teenagers are prone to this behaviour because they don't know the dangers of the world they think its all horror stories and not reality.

You are right. This guy lied to the teenage girl by telling her he loves her and he will marry her blah blah but he actually tricked her. She hid the relationship she had with this guy from her parents. This shows that she was not comfortable to share what was going on in her life with them.

 

[Hubble]

Of course because teenagers are still children. They find things wrong but don't have the full power to say no yet. They don't know what love is really like they think kissing someone who says I love you is a life altering situation. She doesn't know his real name or anything about him? Absolutely sickening that he plotted that and got away with it.

There's a riwaayad similar to this story but the boy sent by the man has a change of heart and falls in love with the girl and they're the same age.

 

[canjeeroiyoshah]

Forget this men from certain clans use to kidnap women they wanted to marry forcefully and rape them.

 

[afrosomali]

lmao this is a true story

u get this off facebook

 

[Hubble]

Forget this men from certain clans use to kidnap women they wanted to marry forcefully and rape them.

Qabiiladee?

 

[Ruqiya]

lmao this is a true story

u get this off facebook

No, I wrote it and this happened to someone I know.

 

[Abdalla]

Thats sad. Did it happen recently?
What happened to the two men?

 

[Ruqiya]

Thats sad. Did it happen recently?
What happened to the two men?

This happened 10 years ago. Nothing happened to the two men. Her family were actually disappointed that she didn't informed them that she wanted to get married or she was seen someone. Her brothers did look for the two guys but her father was like "You deserved what had happened to you", soo adigu maad raacin" When I heard how he responded to his daughter I felt so sorry for her. I know she made a mistake going with the guy she thought cared and loved her without tellling her parents but still the way her father responded was bilaa naxariis.

 

[Abdalla]

Her dad should have asked himself why his daughter doesnt share stuff with him instead of reacting mercilessly

 

[Mercury]

This happened 10 years ago. Nothing happened to the two men. Her family were actually disappointed that she didn't informed them that she wanted to get married or she was seen someone. Her brothers did look for the two guys but her father was like "You deserved what had happened to you", soo adigu maad raacin" When I heard how he responded to his daughter I felt so sorry for her. I know she made a mistake going with the guy she thought cared and loved her without tellling her parents but still the way her father responded was bilaa naxariis.

That's heartless basically the father is saying she deserved to get raped cause she went with him

But than again us guys never think about getting raped cause that never happens

Well I'm not surprised she kept it from her dad

 

[Ruqiya]

That's heartless basically the father is saying she deserved to get raped cause she went with him

But than again us guys never think about getting raped cause that never happens

Well I'm not surprised she kept it from her dad

I agree with you the father was axmaq. I am sure she will hate him forever. She actually does hate him.

 

[Ruqiya]

Her dad should have asked himself why his daughter doesnt share stuff with him instead of reacting mercilessly

He didnt cared at all.