Older xalimos going back home to get married

[Abdisamad]

Yo it's not only men going back home to find a spouse

 

[Abdisamad]

@Gibiin-Udug
@Vanessa
@Desert Flower
@Basic
@Sophisticate
@Saredo
@Hodan from HR
What you girls think about this new trend

 

[486th President]

@Gibiin-Udug
@Vanessa
@Desert Flower
@Basic
@Sophisticate
@Saredo
@Hodan from HR
What you girls think about this new trend

@Sophisticate is a FEMALE?!?!?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

It's not new really. Somali girls who go back home to visit or work/open businesses meet local men. Especially local men who don't want a Western passport.

The only issue with marrying local men is that some just want a passport or maybe a culture clash. So get that ironed out and then guurkiina guur khayr

 

[Abdisamad]

@Sophisticate is a FEMALE?!?!?

She's a qalanjo sxb

 

[Abdisamad]

It's not new really. Somali girls who go back home to visit or work/open businesses meet local men. Especially local men who don't want a Western passport.

The only issue with marrying local men is that some just want a passport or maybe a culture clash. So get that ironed out and then guurkiina guur khayr

Thats what I'm afraid of if I get with a woman back home the culture clash.. We are so different on many things.

 

[Desert Flower]

@Gibiin-Udug
@Vanessa
@Desert Flower
@Basic
@Sophisticate
@Saredo
@Hodan from HR
What you girls think about this new trend

It happens, ive seen it. So far, the couples are happy and thats all that matters.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Yo it's not only men going back home to find a spouse

Its normally older divorcees with kids that don't want a diaspora faraax. This is to avoid having problems with their kids and to have a stress-free marriage. She can enjoy her life in the west with her kids and then visit her husband on holidays.

 

[Desert Flower]

Its normally older divorcees with kids that don't want a diaspora faraax. This is to avoid having problems with their kids and to have a stress-free marriage. She can enjoy her life in the west with her kids and then visit her husband on holidays.

Why would her kids care? if theyre grown she can do whatever she wants, its not their business.

 

[Saredo]

@Gibiin-Udug
@Vanessa
@Desert Flower
@Basic
@Sophisticate
@Saredo
@Hodan from HR
What you girls think about this new trend

I think it’s cool

 

[Villainess]

As long as she doesn’t marry a 16 yr old it’s fine. The prophets wife Khadija was 45 when she married Muhammad at age 20

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Why would her kids care? if theyre grown she can do whatever she wants, its not their business.

Its not that the kids care, Somali dads struggle to be active participants in their childrens lives. A stepdad can cause issues with the kids and cause drama.

I know a woman that got divorced because her husband mocked her son for not having his father around.

 

[486th President]

Its not that the kids care, Somali dads struggle to be active participants in their childrens lives. A stepdad can cause issues with the kids and cause drama.

I know a woman that got divorced because her husband mocked her son for not having his father around.

Damn the old generation Somali dads are questionable new generation Somali dads will be more open

 

[Desert Flower]

Its not that the kids care, Somali dads struggle to be active participants in their childrens lives. A stepdad can cause issues with the kids and cause drama.

I know a woman that got divorced because her husband mocked her son for not having his father around.

I see. How cruel. So Somali men are just literally useless, huh. Even the stepdad is talking shit unprovoked.

 

[Desert Flower]

Damn the old generation Somali dads are questionable new generation Somali dads will be more open ❤

70/30 good : useless which is much better than previous generations. Some are just mini adeer's, right down to the bidaar and tim hortons qaaxwo.

 

[__08]

Yo it's not only men going back home to find a spouse

Mansha Allah. I bet there’s cool some Somali guys in Somalia (lol this whole sentence sounds funny lol).

 

[Bronco]

I cannot emphasise how strongly I disagree with this.

Older Xalimos should simply wither away and die of old age, childless and alone.

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[Abdisamad]

I see. How cruel. So Somali men are just literally useless, huh. Even the stepdad is talking shit unprovoked.

My dear Desert Flower.. You Somali women say Somali men are losers and useless then end up bringing an ex convict revert tyrone with 20 baby mama's home

 

[486th President]

My dear Desert Flower.. You Somali women say Somali men are losers and useless then end up bringing an ex convict revert tyrone with 20 baby mama's home

Let them hate they say that because their dad didn’t love them enough and they now blame every other Somali man for her problem some of y’all need to grow up it’s simple really

 

[Desert Flower]

My dear Desert Flower.. You Somali women say Somali men are losers and useless then end up bringing an ex convict revert tyrone with 20 baby mama's home

I was referring to the odeyaal. But if the (leather) shoe fits...