Question for the faraxs and abdis

[Mimir]

Yes because I want to be close to the prophet(SAW) and one of the easiest ways to do that is by taking care of an orphan.

 

[beenleey]

This question was for the men because I think they’re more against it. Wish I asked for both genders now
@Life Are you a farax or are you like my good illiterate friend @Furioso who voted anyway?

 

[Life]

This question was for the men because I think they’re more against it. Wish I asked for both genders now
@Life Are you a farax or are you like my good illiterate friend @Furioso who voted anyway?

Just wanted to feel included sxb stop with the gender segregating threads

 

[Abdi Caato]

I’d rather adopt kids than have biological ones. I don’t see any point to having kids when there are many alive in need of a parent.

what are you talking about kkkk

just because there are many orphans does not mean there is no benefit in having your own biological kids, we are talking about children wll, not cats

 

[Furioso]

This question was for the men because I think they’re more against it. Wish I asked for both genders now
@Life Are you a farax or are you like my good illiterate friend @Furioso who voted anyway?

I never specified my gender. Stop making assumptions.

 

[Abdisamad]

I won't adopt a kid.
But I'm open to help out a poor mother with one or 2 kids, to provide and support them with food and school fees.. Inshallah I will be able to do this some day.

 

[Mimir]

I never specified my gender. Stop making assumptions.

This is the same girl that wants raise orphaned children

Don't assume my gender kulaha

Are you gonna teach the kids that as well?

 

[Furioso]

This is the same girl that wants raise orphaned children

Don't assume my gender kulaha

Are you gonna teach the kids that as well?

Smh, I was trying to say that I never specified my gender on this site.

 

[Xasusi]

Anyone who prefers adoption to biological children is mentally ill.

But yes I would adopt any race, as long as theyre babies

 

[Robin]

I’d rather adopt kids than have biological ones. I don’t see any point to having kids when there are many alive in need of a parent.

That’s my dream too sis. Inshallah I will adopt at least one child, two if Allah blesses me.

 

[HalimaJ]

I wonder why men on average feel iffy about adopting?

 

[Furioso]

That’s my dream too sis. Inshallah I will adopt at least one child, two if Allah blesses me.

I want to adopt one child when I have the means. I’m definitely not capable of dealing with more than one child. I would go mad.

 

[Xasusi]

Its always the women touting the "id rather adopt" to appear virtuous. When in reality you'll be helping your biological son in 20 years be a drug dealer, whilst running your husband out the house.

Saying one thing and doing another.

 

[beenleey]

I wonder why men on average feel iffy about adopting?

Idk I guess women love kids in general and want to be a mother whilst men want to spread their seed and lineage and Islamically an adopted child doesn’t take ur lineage.

 

[Cilmi-doon]

Are you open to adopting? By adopting I mean having a child living with you and your wife.

Maybe after having biological children if I were to come across a specific child in need.