Question for the girls

[Abdisamad]

Males can give their two cents too..
Girls how do you feel about divorced guys, I mean we all know the guys opinion on divorced women.. Do you think it's more easier to be a divorced guy vs a woman in our society?

 

[Abdisamad]

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I accidentally pushed post before I finished writing... It should make sense now

 

[486th President]

As a guy I don’t see anything wrong with marrying an older divorced women tbh even if she has kids

 

[Abdisamad]

As a guy I don’t see anything wrong with marrying an older divorced women tbh even if she has kids

As long as she doesn't have more than two kids and they're not boys I don't see any issue either

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Divorced guys are a big red flag

 

[Abdisamad]

Divorced guys are a big red flag

How care to clarify why you feel like that

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

As long as she doesn't have more than two kids and they're not boys I don't see any issue either

Just curious why do you have a problem if the women children are boys and not girls?

 

[Rooble44]

Divorced people are a massive red-flag altogether, men or women.

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

How care to clarify why you feel like that

Personal experience. Most of the divorce men I have encountered in my life ( my cousins ) divorced their wives for stupid reason, or they where neglectful husbands who couldn't provide probably

 

[Boogie]

The divorced people aren't gonna like this thread...

It's either they were toxic or they were being abused or they don't love their partner anymore 1 of those if I had to guess

Most of the time its a red flag though

Edit: In the west its easier to be divorced as women but if back home its easier as men

 

[Destiny]

No. Most divorced people come with kids. And I am not going to be anyone's stepmom.

 

[Alluring]

Divorced people (of both genders) don’t deserve their stigma. People fall out of love and finding the perfect person takes time.

If they have been divorced several times, that is a red flag. But one bad marriage does not mean they are a bad person. Their character matters most.

 

[Mercury]

I see nothing wrong with divorced people they could have been incompatible or they just don't have feelings for their partner anymore its not that big of a deal as people make of it

 

[Abdisamad]

Divorced people (of both genders) don’t deserve their stigma. People fall out of love and finding the perfect person takes time.

If they have been divorced several times, that is a red flag. But one bad marriage does not mean they are a bad person. Their character matters most.

Most balanced reply so far.. Alluring you are smart.

 

[Abdisamad]

I see nothing wrong with divorced people they could have been incompatible or they just don't have feelings for their partner anymore its not that big of a deal as people make of it

Yes true.. I understand there are people who get divorced for stupid reasons but we have take into account its not all who just divorce for for the sake of it... It must be depressing to stay in a marriage where there's no love or one partner doesn't have feelings for the other anymore.

 

[Epi]

Depends on the reason as to why they divorced their wife

 

[Alluring]

As long as she doesn't have more than two kids and they're not boys I don't see any issue either

Why not boys?

 

[Abdisamad]

Why not boys?

They'll harass you if you are not their father