faraaxs do you think a lot of Somali girls are toxic, negative and aggressive?
If you voted yes, lets know why
Xalimos, why are a lot of you so toxic and aggressive?
Don’t tell me it’s just bants because it really isn’t. It’s obsessive and toxic behaviour to put someone down constantly, and drag their name through the mud.
and when someone appreciates them, they become possessive and aggressive.
Personal thoughts: I had always imagined myself ending up with a xalimo. But I’m getting more and more sceptical about it. I have come to realise a lot of Somali girls have negative personality traits that I’m not interested in.
Personality traits that would be detrimental to a relationship and family.
My advice to my somali brothers is, be cautious with who you choose as your partner.
Choose deen and personality above attractiveness. Because attractiveness won’t be there forever. her deen and dhaqan will.
If you voted yes, lets know why
Xalimos, why are a lot of you so toxic and aggressive?
Don’t tell me it’s just bants because it really isn’t. It’s obsessive and toxic behaviour to put someone down constantly, and drag their name through the mud.
and when someone appreciates them, they become possessive and aggressive.
Personal thoughts: I had always imagined myself ending up with a xalimo. But I’m getting more and more sceptical about it. I have come to realise a lot of Somali girls have negative personality traits that I’m not interested in.
Personality traits that would be detrimental to a relationship and family.
My advice to my somali brothers is, be cautious with who you choose as your partner.
Choose deen and personality above attractiveness. Because attractiveness won’t be there forever. her deen and dhaqan will.
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