Are you expected to cook and clean after them always? I live with my hooyo and brothers so I have never seen what is expected from daughters and sons
Question for xalimos with a lot of brothers
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In a Somali household the girls do everything and the boys typically sit and relax. My dad always says sons are useless.
When I do a f*ck up. My dad jokingly says
"Why couldn't I have a daughter"
Say wallahi
I do everything in this retarded household
Sons are only useless if they weren’t taught better. It’s like saying an illiterate person is useless when they weren’t taught to readIn a Somali household the girls do everything and the boys typically sit and relax. My dad always says sons are useless.
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It's definitely expected for the girls to do more chores than the boys, I was the youngest so didn't do much but my older sisters had to clean and cook while my older brothers weren't expected to even lift a finger. I am going to teach both my boys and girls to do chores since they'll need the skills equally.
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Sons are only useless if they weren’t taught better. It’s like saying an illiterate person is useless when they weren’t taught to read
That's probably because daughters are already expected to be able to do everything and if farax does it it's a miracle
Or entitlement. My parents especially my dad tell my brothers to help around and they act like they are incapable.Sons are only useless if they weren’t taught better. It’s like saying an illiterate person is useless when they weren’t taught to read
It could also be that we are just more inclined to do it because we want to. If my mom or dad is sick I'll ask them how they are feeling, make them food, take care of them and handle all the housework but my brothers won't be interested because they'll think fatima will do it. I think women usually enjoy taking care of people.
I don't have any sisters just two younger brothersSons are only useless if they weren’t taught better. It’s like saying an illiterate person is useless when they weren’t taught to read
That's probably because daughters are already expected to be able to do everything and if farax does it it's a miracle
My point was some Somali parents enable their sons to be entitled. If both genders are told to do housework then entitlement disappears.Or entitlement. My parents especially my dad tell my brothers to help around and they act like they are incapable.
That sounds lit wlh. My older sisters moved out before I could remember and the sisters around my age don’t live with me lol.My sisters did all the work and I rarely helped out as I don't need to. I never felt guiltywatching shows under my warm bed sheets is amazing. They would occasionally clean my room too even though I didn't ask them
Fukin love being a man. We rule
This is common in all Somali households. I remember asking my mother when I used to live in my parent's house why do you make your daughters do more work than your sons? She told me she's teaching them how to be a wife when they get married and now that both of my older sisters are married. They understand why their mother made them do most of the house duties. They thank my mother for teaching them how to be wifey material and preparing their future. There's always a reason for everything.
I'm just telling you what I've experienced with my family.
The husband is already helping out by working to provide and raising his kids right. However, if the wife works and is helping out with the rent and bills then I believe the husband should help the wife out with the chores but if the wife does not work and she stays at home. The husband should not lift a finger and leave the household duties to the wife.
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